Pumpheads Ep. 35 - The Sober-Curious Case of Scheana Marie Shay (Vanderpump Rules S11E3)
Feb 15, 2024
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Discussions on Madame Web, Dakota Johnson's cultural impact, a performance artist auctioning off flesh, Meghan Markle's podcast venture. VPR recap includes Scheana's screamo performance, Sandoval's struggles, and a confrontation in the SUR Alleyway. Humorous banter and banter about sobriety and social norms in a light-hearted manner.
Lisa Vanderpump advises Tom Sandoval to start fresh after his cheating scandal, highlighting the importance of accountability and honesty within friendships.
The podcast explores the delicate balance between manipulative behaviors and mental health struggles, shedding light on the complexities of addiction and suicidal ideation.
The tension surrounding drinking habits and sobriety leads to conflicts within the group, emphasizing the misunderstandings and differing viewpoints on the 'sober curious' trend.
Deep dives
Tom Sandoval faces the consequences of his actions
Tom Sandoval is confronted by Lisa Vanderpump about his behavior and the consequences of cheating on Ariana with Raquel. Lisa advises him to move out of the shared house and start fresh, but Tom struggles to accept the reality of the situation.
Katie and James discuss the fallout from Tom's party
Katie voices her frustration with Tom's behavior at his birthday party, while James informs her about the threats Tom has received. They discuss the lack of accountability among the group and the need for Tom to surround himself with people who will be honest with him.
Lisa Vanderpump's solo reflection on her restaurant and decisions
Lisa Vanderpump contemplates the state of her restaurant, Pump, and questions whether she has made the right decisions. She reflects on past choices and wonders if she could have changed the outcomes, ultimately realizing the need to move forward.
Tom Sandoval's delusional perspective and refusal to accept reality
Tom Sandoval struggles to accept the consequences of his actions, from cheating on Ariana to the fallout with his friends. He clings to the hope of keeping the house and downplays his role in the situation, refusing to acknowledge the need for him to leave and start fresh.
Manipulation and Suicidal Ideation
The podcast episode discusses the manipulative behaviors of a certain individual and explores the idea that even manipulative people can experience suicidal ideation. The host shares personal experiences of being manipulative and struggling with addiction, highlighting how these behaviors can affect mental health.
Drinking, Sobriety, and Relationship Tensions
The episode delves into the tension between different attitudes towards drinking and sobriety among the cast members. It covers a conversation between two cast members, where one expresses frustration with the 'sober curious' trend and emphasizes that abstaining from alcohol for a few weeks is not the same as being sober. The strained relationships and differing perspectives on alcohol consumption contribute to conflict within the group.
Lara and Carey record a Valentine’s Day recap of the latest VPR, but first discuss the already camp-legend Madame Web & Dakota Johnson’s confounding but essential place in culture, the performance artist who auctioned off his flesh for seven figures, and Duchess Meghan’s new podcast venture.
On VPR, Scandoval’s birthday party of sorrow continues with Billie Lee and Kyle Chan proving their “Friend Of” chops. Scheana performs her screamo-version of “Good As Gold” at Emo Night. Sandoval admits to LVP that he’s had unalive ideation in the wake of Scandoval, and Schwartz worries about his little brother’s liver. Then the crew converges on SUR for See You Next Tuesday, where Ariana and Lala put a sheepish Schwartz in his place. Finally, Sandoval and a freshly sober Scheana have it out in the hallowed ground of the SUR Alleyway.
