The Secret Language of Empathy & How To Use It

Empathy isn’t just a feeling—it’s a skillset, and in this episode, we break down its secret language. From how to stop jumping to advice-giving to what true emotional presence really looks like, we explore the four essential attributes of empathy. If you’ve ever wondered why your support sometimes falls flat—or how to help your partner feel more understood—this episode is your guide to getting out of the “fix-it” trap and into deeper connection.

We talk about topics such as: 

- The Four Attributes of Empathy

- Why We Default to Fixing Instead of Empathizing

- Empathy ≠ Agreement

- How to Build the Empathy Muscle

- and more!

Brene Brown Empathy Video mentioned

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