We Can Do Hard Things

26. SEXUAL DESIRE: How do we know who and what we really want?

Sep 14, 2021
The conversation kicks off with a humorous revelation about discovering sexual orientation in unexpected places, like a Macaroni Grill. Personal stories unfold, including transformative moments that shaped understanding of desire, layered with introspection on societal norms and labels. The speakers dive into the complexities of identity, exploring how external influences can impede genuine self-discovery. Through candid anecdotes and lighthearted reflections, they champion the journey toward embracing one's authentic self and navigating the fluid nature of attraction.
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ANECDOTE

Macaroni Grill Epiphany

  • Abby Wambach discovered her attraction to women at a Macaroni Grill.
  • A waitress grazed her finger, triggering a realization about her sexuality.
ANECDOTE

Amish Boogie Nights

  • Glennon Doyle experienced a sexual awakening while at a convention in Pennsylvania Dutch Country.
  • A Kinsey scale test and Melissa Etheridge's song "Drive" solidified her realization.
INSIGHT

Unexamined Sexuality

  • Amanda Doyle reflects on how not questioning her heterosexuality might have stunted her sexual exploration.
  • She realizes that being part of the majority group can lead to a lack of critical examination.
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