Neurodiverse Love with Mona Kay The Common Stages of Change in ND Partnership Work-Jill Corvelli
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Sep 9, 2025 Jill Corvelli, founder of the Neurodiverse Partners Institute, specializes in supporting complex couples where one or both partners are neurodistinct. In this discussion, she reveals common stages of change in neurodiverse relationships, emphasizing the growth potential through connection. Jill introduces her ND Compass model to improve communication and decision-making and highlights the importance of emotional safety. She also explores the necessity of inner work for enhanced intimacy and managing nervous system health, providing valuable insights for navigating these unique dynamics.
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Stages Guide Relationship Energy
- Relationship change follows common developmental stages that normalize struggle and guide next steps.
- Knowing your stage conserves energy and helps you gather fuel for the next step.
Differentiation Adds An Invisible Layer
- Neurodiverse couples face an extra invisible layer during differentiation that intensifies the power struggle.
- This added layer makes differentiation the hardest stage and can trap couples for years.
Stop Trying To Recreate Bonding
- Move forward rather than trying to return to the honeymoon phase; progress requires new skills.
- Focus on one next step instead of wishing you were three steps ahead.