Jack Kornfield discusses navigating mood states like weather, finding balance in emotions, diffusing desire with humor, and techniques for overcoming doubt. He emphasizes experiencing moods as impersonal conditions, exploring Buddhist psychology, and embracing fear for personal growth.
Embrace mood states like clouds, understanding their impermanence and natural flow.
Find balance in navigating moods, without suppression or immediate reaction.
Deep dives
Understanding the Middle Ground
Finding the balance between suppressing emotions and acting on every feeling is crucial. This balance leads to authentic strength, stillness, and compassion. By embracing understanding and loving kindness without grasping or pushing away, we discover inner strength and peace.
Exploring Mood States
Mood states are dynamic and ever-changing for everyone. They are compared to patterns of weather or clouds in the sky. Through an episode focused on mood states, listeners are encouraged to delve into their feelings rather than push them away, leading to a deeper understanding and eventual resolution of these emotional patterns.
The Six Flavors of Experience
In Buddhist psychology, experience is categorized into six senses: sounds, smells, tastes, physical perceptions, mental perceptions, and consciousness. The interaction between these senses and consciousness gives rise to mental qualities or factors that influence our relationship with each experience. Understanding these mental qualities helps in navigating between those that cause suffering and those that lead to freedom and peace.
Working with Strong Moods and Energies
Different moods like the wanting mind, aversion, sleepiness, restlessness, and doubt are explored as common human experiences. By accepting, naming, and feeling these moods, individuals can learn to observe them without immediate reactions. Through softening the heart and shifting perspectives, one can find peace and understanding within the fluctuations of these energies, ultimately leading to freedom and deeper self-awareness.
"Moods are actually kind of mysterious and quite impersonal. They're like the weather. It's been kind of cool this year, then we get our rainstorms, and the sun comes in between, and the wind comes and dies down, and we don't have any control over it whatsoever. It just comes. It's due to certain conditions." – Jack Kornfield
In this episode, Jack compassionately illuminates:
Experiencing moods as clouds or weather—arising and passing naturally from impersonal sets of conditions
The six flavors of experience in Buddhism
Finding the middle ground between acting on feelings and suppressing them
The "vipassana romance" and understanding the "siren call" of desire
Diffusing desire with humor, mindfulness, and noting
Moving past attachment and aversion by leaning into them
Techniques for overcoming doubt
Letting go and becoming more happy and more live
"The optimist wakes up and says, 'Good morning, God!' And the pessimist wakes up and says, 'Good God! Morning...' It's the same experience, but the mood somehow changes it." – Jack Kornfield
"One sits and practices, and let's these experiences come and fill us. We bow to them, name them, soften in the heart and say, 'Okay, show me your stuff, give me the whole thing.' And you know what happens after a while? If you make this spaciousness in the heart and that still point, at some point it ends. Because everything does. You say, 'Wow that was a big storm of desire, wasn't it?' And there you are, and there's this sense of freedom that comes that that's not who we are most fundamentally." – Jack Kornfield
The Dharma Talk from 4/1/1988 at was originally published on DharmaSeed.