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Building Resilience

Through Their Lens – How Your Nervous System Shapes Relationships

Mar 12, 2025
17:12

Have you ever been blindsided by someone’s reaction and thought, where did that come from? Whether it’s a toddler refusing to put on their shoes, a teen with an unexpected attitude, or even a coworker’s sharp remark, our interactions are shaped by something deeper than we realize—our nervous system state.


In this episode of Building Resilience, we explore how our nervous system acts as a filter, shaping the way we see and respond to the world. When we start understanding this, everything shifts.



What You’ll Learn in This Episode

✅ Why we react the way we do—and why our kids, partners, and coworkers do too

✅ How past experiences shape our nervous system responses

✅ Why some people keep repeating unhealthy relationship patterns

✅ How to identify nervous system states (Team Hyper, Hypo, or Resilient)

✅ Practical strategies to respond with intention rather than react

✅ How regulating your own nervous system can shift the entire dynamic of a relationship


If you’ve ever wondered why certain people trigger you or why some relationships feel harder than others, this episode will help you see interactions through a new lens—one that leads to greater understanding, connection, and resilience.


Resources & Links

[Link] Connections Membership: Join the waitlist! Build resilience and foster growth through nervous system regulation and community support.

[Link] It's Not Just Your Thoughts, It's Your Nervous System (with a Creative Twist): A free workshop to map your nervous system and create a calm toolkit with simple, creative techniques. No artistic skills required!

[Link] The Advanced Nervous System Resilience training: Dive deep into understanding the nervous system and its role in our lives.


Get My Resilience Journal

📝 Resilience: A Guided Journal for Emotional Well-Being & Nervous System Care

📌 Amazon US: Buy Here

📌 Amazon CA: Buy Here


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