I really didn’t want to do this

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I'm feeling a bit anxious today, and I want to share that with you. Even though I help people manage their stress and anxiety, I still experience those feelings myself. Today, I found myself avoiding life by watching random videos on YouTube instead of dealing with my tasks. It's easy to get caught up in those moments of escapism, but I realized that acknowledging my feelings is crucial. In this conversation, we’ll explore how we all face our own storms, and what we can do to find stillness amidst the chaos. Let's dive in and see how we can navigate these feelings together.

Now and again, you have one of those days, and this was one of them. I really couldn't be bothered to do anything, let alone record a podcast.

Stress and anxiety can creep in on even the best of days. As I sit here feeling anxious and overwhelmed, I share that it’s a universal experience, even for those who help others manage their stress. We all face moments of doubt and avoidance, and I’m no exception. This podcast dives into the feeling of wanting to hide from the world and the struggle of confronting those feelings head-on. I share my recent experiences of procrastinating and avoiding responsibilities, like scrolling through YouTube instead of dealing with my emails. It’s all too easy to get caught up in distractions, but recognizing this behavior is the first step towards addressing it.

During this episode, I reflect on how life can feel overwhelming, even when it seems like everything is fine. The anxiety doesn’t always have a clear cause, and sometimes, it just sneaks up on us. I discuss how I’ve learned to observe my feelings and reactions, and how this awareness can lead to better coping mechanisms. We talk about the importance of showing up for ourselves and the power of doing something constructive, like recording this podcast, to help shift our mindset. It’s a reminder that we all deal with stress and anxiety, and it’s okay to feel that way sometimes.

The conversation also touches on the idea that we’re all just a few pages ahead in our life stories. No one has it completely together, and even those who seem to have it all figured out have their struggles. By sharing my own vulnerabilities, I hope to encourage listeners to acknowledge their feelings and take steps to overcome them. Life is about navigating through the storms, and the tools we build for ourselves can help us feel more equipped to face those challenges.

Takeaways:

• Feeling anxious and overwhelmed is something everyone experiences, even those who help others.
• We often avoid our responsibilities by distracting ourselves with things we don't care about.
• Recognizing our feelings and taking action is more important than simply feeling overwhelmed.
• Life is unpredictable; despite our coping strategies, storms will still come our way.
• The key to managing anxiety is to observe our behavior and respond constructively, not reactively.
• It's okay to feel stressed; what matters is how we choose to deal with those feelings.