Sex With Emily

How to Ask for What You Want in Bed (For Better Sex)

Jun 6, 2025
Joanna Angel, an adult film star, writer, and director, joins the discussion to share her journey from stripper to empowered entrepreneur. She reveals how embracing her sexuality has boosted her confidence and communication skills. The conversation dives into her new choose-your-own-adventure erotic novel, spotlighting the importance of authentic dialogue in intimacy. Joanna contrasts dirty talk with sexting, offering tips to enhance sexual connection while breaking free from porn-influenced norms, creating a roadmap for fulfilling pleasure.
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ANECDOTE

Stripping Transformed Joanna's Confidence

  • Joanna Angel's experience as a stripper transformed her confidence and sexuality.
  • Performing on stage helped her embrace her femininity and connect with people authentically.
ADVICE

Practice Dirty Talk for Confidence

  • To talk dirty or sext, start by writing down explicit things that turn you on.
  • Practice speaking or writing those fantasies to build your comfort and confidence.
ADVICE

Be Descriptive in Sexting

  • Be descriptive in sexting by detailing what you're wearing and imagining intimate scenarios.
  • Avoid vague phrases; instead, vividly describe sensations and actions for stronger arousal.
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