Pillow Talks Episode 193: The Things We Can’t Say In The Comments
Jan 30, 2025
Ever wondered what lurks behind spicy social media comments? The hosts explore the challenges of online feedback and the need for deeper conversations. They tackle spicy topics like quickie intimacy, communication, and consent, all while addressing societal taboos surrounding sexual discussions. From navigating fantasies to prioritizing intimacy in relationships, this episode is packed with insights to help build stronger connections. Plus, tips for busy parents to keep romance alive amidst the chaos!
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Role-Playing Controversy
- Vanessa and Xander discussed a listener question about a husband asking his wife to role-play as her best friend.
- The ensuing social media debate covered consent, boundaries, and taboo fantasies.
Communicate, But Be Thoughtful
- Communicate desires openly and honestly with your partner.
- Be mindful of their potential reactions and adjust expectations accordingly.
Fantasies and Consent
- Fantasizing about someone, even without their consent, is normal, as it occurs in dreams and private thoughts.
- The ethical line blurs when fantasies involve degradation or cruelty.