Don't Worry About the Vase Podcast Dating Roundup #8: Tactics
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Dec 29, 2025 Dating is a skill that thrives on practice, and the conversation dives into why many remain single due to a lack of experience. Discover the importance of 'shooting your shot' and making intentions clear through simple gestures like hand-holding. The hosts tackle fears of public mockery and the art of confirming dates, emphasizing that decisive action can lead to success. With intriguing takes on dancing, event mismatches, and the need for receptive energy, the discussion is both insightful and entertaining!
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Practice Dating Early
- Dating is a skill that improves with deliberate practice and real reps.
- Delaying dating until 'you build yourself' is usually counterproductive.
Do Post‑Mortems After Dates
- Do post-mortems after sexual or dating interactions to learn what went right and wrong.
- Treat sex like any other process and analyze it no-fault on a whiteboard.
Make Your Interest Common Knowledge
- Create common knowledge when you 'shoot your shot' so your interest is unmistakable.
- Prefer clear, well-timed moves because ambiguous openings don't count as shooting your shot.