Heart of Dating S11 Ep203: RED FLAG: Not Physically Attracted to Them
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Sep 27, 2023 Discussions on physical attraction in relationships, including the double standard of expecting physical attraction while neglecting grooming habits. Addressing relationship anxiety caused by past trauma and seeking professional therapy. Expressing disagreement with the emphasis on physical attractiveness and valuing individuals for their inherent worth. Importance of considering more than just looks in dating and finding a balance between attraction and boundaries. Exploring personal experiences of initially being unattracted to someone but developing deeper connections over time. Discussion on the relationship between physical attraction and personal hygiene. Perspectives on red flags in dating and building a strong foundation beyond physical attraction.
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Physical Attraction in Marriage
- Don't marry someone you're not physically attracted to and don't want to kiss.
- Physical attraction matters, but its prioritization is often misguided and can grow over time.
The Pendulum of Attraction
- People often hold extreme views on physical attraction, either dismissing it entirely or overemphasizing it.
- A balanced perspective recognizes its importance while acknowledging other crucial factors.
The "Fine Girl" Controversy
- Kaitlyn and JJ discuss a reel and podcast episode promoting the idea of prioritizing physical attractiveness, even using the term "fine girl."
- Kaitlyn expresses concern over the message's potential harm, especially to those with body image issues.