Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel Esther Calling - Having Needs Doesn't Make You Needy
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May 12, 2022 Explore the complexities of vulnerability in new relationships, where one partner struggles to express his desire for exclusivity. Discover how having needs is not a sign of weakness, but rather a strength that fosters deeper emotional connections. The conversation also touches on the importance of openness about past experiences, especially post-divorce. Additionally, learn about innovative storytelling techniques to enhance relational bonds, showing that communication can be both playful and profound.
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Honest Communication
- Voice your concerns directly and honestly, even if it feels uncomfortable.
- Ask clarifying questions to understand your partner's perspective and potential discomfort.
Confidence in Vulnerability
- Expressing your needs confidently can be attractive, not needy.
- True confidence comes from owning your feelings without apology.
Addressing Silence
- Directly address silences or ambiguous responses in the conversation.
- Ask for clarification from your partner about their feelings or thoughts.