WTF with Marc Maron Podcast Episode 1643 - Carol Leifer
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May 15, 2025 
Carol Leifer, a legendary standup comic and writer known for her work on SNL and Seinfeld, shares her insights gained from nearly five decades in comedy. She discusses the fine art of humor in sensitive contexts like memorials and weddings, revealing how comedy can be a healing tool. Leifer also highlights her experiences writing for the Oscars and the influence of her teenage son on her comedic perspective. Plus, she offers practical tips on public speaking, combining laughter with meaningful moments.
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Humor's Role in Memorial Speeches
- Humor at memorials provides catharsis and honors the deceased's qualities.
- Stories about the person engage and comfort the audience while keeping the speech heartfelt.
Cousin's Memorial Humor Story
- Carol spoke at her cousin Jay's memorial using a humorous Beach Boys story.
- Despite the opener Mike Love not remembering her, the story reflected her cousin's personality and was well received.
Wedding Speech Essentials
- Keep speeches at weddings and events under five minutes.
- Have one drink before speaking, but avoid getting too intoxicated while up there.