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Optimal Living Daily - Personal Development and Self-Improvement

3248: Quit Listening to Your Feelings ASAP (Says the Shrink) by Dr. Kelly Flanagan on Personal Growth

Jul 13, 2024
Dr. Kelly Flanagan discusses the importance of listening to inner wisdom over fleeting emotions for personal growth. He shares a touching story about his daughter's bravery during a flight to emphasize discerning guidance from our deeper self. Courage is defined as choosing wisdom over feelings, leading to empowered decisions.
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  • True courage involves discerning inner wisdom over transient emotions for empowered choices.
  • Visualizing our 'higher self' and running emotions through a 'wisdom control center' guides transformative decisions.

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Listening to Inner Wisdom Over Feelings

In an anecdote about his daughter's fear of flying, the speaker emphasizes the importance of listening to inner wisdom over feelings. Courage is described as making decisions based on wisdom rather than feelings, as feelings like happiness, shame, or anger do not always align with the best course of action. By running emotions through a 'control center' of wisdom within us, we can discern the most optimal path forward, even when feelings may be overwhelming or misleading.

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