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Self Obsessed

EP9: How to build your dream life and always be in control

Jan 17, 2024
Learn how to focus on creating your dream life and be in control. Understand yourself for personal development by identifying strengths and weaknesses. Surround yourself with cooler people to fuel your dreams and break free from limitations. Plan and self-evaluate to build your dream life. Reprogram beliefs and overcome self-sabotage. Embrace failure and acquire skills for success.
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Quick takeaways

  • Shifting attention away from others and focusing on what you can control allows you to pour emotional energy back into your own growth and joy.
  • Understanding yourself, analyzing every area of your life, and creating a step-by-step action plan are essential in the planning stage of building your dream life.

Deep dives

Shift your attention to yourself

To achieve self-obsession and intentionally design your dream life, the key is to focus on what you can control and shift your attention away from others. Constantly worrying about what others think and seeking their approval drains your energy and prevents you from taking action. By shifting your thoughts and stresses towards yourself, you can pour emotional energy back into your own growth and joy.

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