Wild at Heart E824 | The Deep-Rooted Marriage - Part 1
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May 19, 2025 Dan Allender, an author and counselor renowned for his insight into trauma and relationships, joins his wife Becky Allender, a speaker and co-contributor to their book, to explore the complexities of marriage. They discuss the feeling of being unseen in relationships and how to cultivate intimacy and healing. Their conversation touches on the importance of communication, humor in navigating marriage, and the transformative power of vulnerability and compassion in deepening connections. They also reflect on their personal journeys during morning prayer walks.
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Avoid Contempt, Choose Kindness
- Avoid contempt in marriage as it acts like joining the kingdom of evil and damages relationships deeply.
- Embrace generosity and kindness to navigate hardships and maintain closeness in marriage.
Honoring and Delighting in Marriage
- Delight and honor are foundational in marriage, leading to gratitude and wonder akin to worship.
- God delights in us, and mirroring this divine delight can heal and deepen marital bonds.
Daily Walking and Praying Ritual
- Dan and Becky walk daily in nature praying together, which grounds and renews their marriage.
- This intentional shared time fosters abiding in each other's hearts and with God, strengthening their bond.
