Are You Sabotaging Your Romantic Relationships? What You Need to Know to Build the Marriage and Relationship of Your Dreams with Lindsay Roth

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Feb 12, 2025

Lindsay Roth, an award-winning television producer and author of "Romances & Practicalities," shares her insights on building lasting relationships. She discusses the importance of daily rituals and open communication to enhance intimacy and connection. Roth highlights common relationship pitfalls and suggests transformative questions couples can ask each other. She emphasizes that scheduling intimacy can alleviate stress and deepen bonds, while also advocating for vulnerability and proactive communication to nurture love in busy lives.

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INSIGHT

Relationships = Happiness

Positive relationships are key for happiness and longevity, validated by experts and couples.
Meaningful connections with loved ones are more important than career titles or achievements.

ADVICE

Proactive Relationships

Be proactive in relationships instead of letting things just happen.
Ask yourself key questions about your values, dealbreakers, and who you want to be.

INSIGHT

Listen to Your Partner

Not listening to your partner is the top relationship killer.
People show and tell you who they are early on, so pay attention and avoid getting blinded by wants.

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When it comes to happiness in relationships, we often overlook the daily effort and tools needed for true intimacy. Instead, we focus on the romanticized end result, without fully understanding what it takes to create lasting success. Today’s guest is here to dispel common myths and share the key questions and practical tools that can help us build stronger, happier relationships.

Today on The Dhru Purohit Show, Dhru sits down with his good friend and author Lindsay Roth to explore the key ingredients of strong, lasting relationships. Lindsay shares the journey that led her to write a book on relationships, the top things that destroy them, and the simple yet powerful questions you can ask to strengthen your connection with your partner. She also explains how rituals and routines can deepen intimacy and why scheduling intimacy can actually relieve stress and pressure in a relationship. Dhru also reflects on the lessons he's learned about maintaining open communication and vulnerability in his own relationship. If you’re looking to reignite and recharge your relationship, this conversation is for you!

Lindsay Jill Roth is an award-winning television and live-events producer who has created and developed a wide variety of programming globally, including original content for NBC, BET, ESPN, Food Network, Billboard, The Masters, The Grammys, The Tonys, and the US Open. She is the former producer of Emmy-nominated Larry King Now and the creator and executive producer of Haylie Duff’s Real Girl’s Kitchen. She is also the author of the novel What Pretty Girls Are Made Of.

In this episode, Dhru and Lindsay dive into:

What actually makes us happy? (00:25)
Being proactive in relationships (05:07)
The top thing that destroys a relationship (13:26)
How to improve your relationship (16:56)
The power of routines and rituals (25:57)
Asking intentional questions to strengthen connection (29:20)
The origin story of Lindsay's book (41:20)
Showcasing strengths, fostering belonging, and confronting weaknesses (52:36)
Understanding how you argue and apologize meaningfully (56:54)
Intimacy—discussing and scheduling sex (01:11:18)
Routines to deepen intimacy between partners (01:15:30)
Final thoughts (01:26:50)

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Romances & Practicalities: Lindsay’s Book

For more on Lindsay, follow her on Instagram, LinkedIn, and her Website.

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