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Psychology Has It Backwards

Episode 105: Love, Part 1: Looking for Love in All the Wrong Places

Dec 3, 2022
28:21

If we expect love to "happen to us," or to "come from" someone else to make us whole, we are setting ourselves up for a lifetime of disappointment.  Love comes from within, from our own soul-felt connection to life, and when we find that feeling within ourselves, we attract others who want to share it.  Many people believe they need something outside themselves, a relationship, or a person, in order to love and be loved.  Coming from "need" with others is coming from insecurity, and misunderstanding of our true nature.  It brings judgement to relationships.  Seeing the Principles at work behind all of life allows us to discover we have everything we need, and takes the pressure off relationships.

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