The Kink Consultant Ep 52 - When Pain Meets Pleasure: Behind the Scenes at Ripped Digital with Lucas & Hazel
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What happens when your relationship is built on trust, power exchange, and pushing limits together?
In this episode, I sit down with Lucas and Hazel of Ripped Digital to talk about what it really takes to live and create on the more extreme side of BDSM. From navigating risk and safety in hardcore play to building a 24/7 power exchange dynamic, Lucas and Hazel share openly about their relationship, their porn production, and why empathy and trust are at the heart of everything they do.
We dive into what it means to eroticize shame, how fantasies differ from reality, why safety tools like negotiation checklists and aftercare rituals matter, and how they’ve turned their personal kinks into a professional life that still feels authentic. If you’ve ever wanted to understand what happens behind the scenes of extreme kink content or how couples can thrive while exploring the edges of BDSM, this is one you won’t want to miss.
Episode Highlights:
(00:00) Risk Awareness, Safety, and Harm Reduction
(06:00) Negotiation, Trust, and First-Time Scenes
(12:00) Eroticizing Shame and Exploring Taboo Fantasies
(21:00) Aligning Public and Private Kink Identities
(30:00) Sadism, Empathy, and Keeping Power in Check
(41:00) Why Authentic Headspace Matters More than Scripted Porn
(47:00) Cinematic Fantasies and Bucket List Scenes
(53:00) Creating Content that Feels Real and Experiential
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