The Kink Consultant When Pain Meets Pleasure: Behind the Scenes at Ripped Digital with Lucas & Hazel
Oct 3, 2025
Explore the fascinating world of BDSM with Lucas and Hazel as they discuss the importance of trust and safety in extreme play. Discover how they navigate the line between fantasy and reality, emphasizing empathy and communication. They share insights on eroticizing shame, maintaining daily power dynamics, and creating authentic content in the adult industry. Tune in for their unique perspective on integrating kink into everyday life, along with tips for couples looking to explore their limits!
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Extreme Kink As A Safety-Minded Spectrum
- Lucas and Hazel frame extreme BDSM as a spectrum where fantasy and safety coexist through harm-reduction practices.
- They prioritize risk-awareness and practical safety measures like safety shears and negotiation over prohibition.
Vet Talent With Checks And Calls
- Vet performers by reviewing their prior work and doing video calls before booking.
- Use negotiation checklists and face-to-face conversations to assess experience and build trust.
Eroticizing Shame To Integrate Self
- Hazel describes eroticizing shame as a tool to integrate parts of identity and reduce internal shame.
- She reframes mistakes and vulnerabilities as parts of her bimbo headspace that bring release and acceptance.