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The Happiness Lab with Dr. Laurie Santos

How to Make Friends and Compliment People

Oct 9, 2023
29:31
Snipd AI
Learn about the power of compliments and how they can positively impact social interactions. Hear personal stories and experiences with compliments, including a powerful compliment that changed someone's perspective. Explore the impact of compliments on well-being and happiness, and discover surprising findings from studies on the long-term effects of daily compliments. Get tips on giving authentic and well-intentioned compliments, and hear a comedian's experience of brightening strangers' days with tailor-made compliments. Uncover the positive effects of giving and receiving compliments in relationships.
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Quick takeaways

  • Compliments have a significant impact on happiness and strengthen relationships, and people tend to underestimate their positive effects.
  • Tailored and sincere compliments, given without any ulterior motive, brighten someone's day and create a sense of warmth and connection.

Deep dives

Compliments have a profound impact on happiness

Research shows that complimenting others has a significant impact on both the giver and the recipient's happiness. Compliments are often underestimated, but they bring genuine joy and a sense of connection. People tend to hold back compliments due to performance anxiety or assuming that the recipient already knows their good qualities. However, studies demonstrate that compliments are well-received, make people happier, and can even strengthen relationships. One experiment showed that participants consistently underestimated how positively compliments would be received and overestimated the awkwardness of giving them. Overall, giving sincere compliments can greatly enhance happiness and social interactions.

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