PsycHacks Episode 43: The ”best years of your life”
Sep 29, 2021
Debunking the myth of the 'best years of your life' in your early 20s. Exploring the pressure and FOMO young people face. Contrasting responsibilities and privileges with age. Discussing how lifestyle choices shape the best years of one's life.
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Pressure And FOMO Around Your 20s
- Dr. Orion Terriban says hearing your early 20s are "the best years" creates pressure and FOMO.
- This belief drives manic, one-shot behavior before adulthood.
Freedom From Isn't Freedom To
- Dr. Orion Terriban notes youth often has freedom FROM obligations but lacks freedom TO pursue desires due to scarce resources.
- Apparent freedom can be squandered by circumstances.
Choices Shape Whether Life Improves
- Dr. Orion Terriban contrasts regretful elders who romanticize youth with those who made choices that improve life over time.
- People who build resources gain more freedom as years pass.