In this episode, the narrator shares their desire to thank a stranger who showed kindness during a scary moment. They embark on a journey to find this person and reflect on the impact of kindness. The podcast also explores the shooting incident, the caregiver's experience, and personal growth.
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Quick takeaways
Nick reflects on the kindness of a stranger he calls the 'sympathetic kid' after being shot, emphasizing the impact of small acts of compassion.
Nick and Maggie's conversation brings forth emotions and revelations, highlighting the importance of personal growth and breaking unhealthy patterns.
Deep dives
Nick's Traumatic Experience
Nick, a landscaper, recounts the traumatic event of being shot in the stomach by a coworker named Andy. He shares how the incident affected him emotionally and how he told different versions of the story throughout the years. Despite enduring physical and emotional pain, Nick feels abandoned by Andy and another friend named Israel, who show little concern after the incident.
Searching for the Sympathetic Kid
Nick reflects on the kindness shown by a stranger, whom he refers to as the 'sympathetic kid.' He vividly remembers this person being genuinely scared for him and asking if he needed a towel. Thirty years later, Nick embarks on a search to find this individual so he can express his gratitude. After some efforts, he finally connects with Jared, who acknowledges being the 'sympathetic kid' but prefers to keep the past in the past.
The Role of Maggie
Maggie, Nick's former girlfriend, played a significant role in his recovery process after being shot. She recalls the challenging times they faced, with Nick expressing anger and depression. As a nursing student at the time, Maggie took on the responsibility of caring for Nick, even enduring his outbursts. Their conversation reveals the complex dynamics between them, as Nick is confronted with his past behavior and Maggie strives to prioritize self-care.
Reflection and Growth
The conversation between Nick and Maggie brings forth emotions and revelations. Nick acknowledges the anger he has carried throughout his life and reflects on his relationship with his father and the impact it had on his response to the shooting. Both Nick and Maggie express a desire for personal growth and recognize the need to break patterns and adopt healthier ways of dealing with their emotions.
In 1993, Nick was shot in an Idaho motel room. One stranger came to his aid. Nick wants to find him.
CREDITS
If you're feeling unsafe in your relationship, call 1.800.799.7233, or text "START" to 88788. You can also visit www.loveisrespect.org.
Heavyweight is hosted and produced by Jonathan Goldstein.
This episode was produced by senior producer Kalila Holt, along with Phoebe Flanigan. The supervising producer is Stevie Lane.
Production assistance by Mohini Madgavkar. Editorial guidance from Emily Condon.
Special thanks to Annie Minoff, Laura Morris, Lauren Silverman, and Jackie Cohen.
The show was mixed by Bobby Lord.
Music by Christine Fellows, John K Samson, Blue Dot Sessions, Michael Hearst, Katie Condon, Ehren Ebbage, and Bobby Lord. Our theme song is by The Weakerthans courtesy of Epitaph Records.