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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

(Rewind): What People Really Fall in Love With…

Mar 31, 2023
10:56

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Quick takeaways

  • People don't fall in love with individual characteristics, but with the overall package a person presents.
  • Embracing one's unique story and not comparing oneself to others based on superficial features can lead to self-acceptance and attract the right person.

Deep dives

People fall in love with a package, not just features

In this podcast episode, the speaker emphasizes that people don't fall in love with individual features, but rather with the overall package a person presents. It is revealed that many individuals feel anxious or insecure when comparing themselves to others in their partner's life. However, the speaker emphasizes that a person's value is not based on their physical appearance or specific characteristics. Instead, it is a combination of their personality, history, supportiveness, and unique qualities that make up their complete package. The speaker encourages individuals to understand that if someone chooses to leave for what they deem as a more attractive or accomplished package, it signifies that the person leaving was never truly seeking a meaningful relationship.

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