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Love Life with Matthew Hussey
(Matt Monday): How to Attract People Who WANT Commitment
Oct 21, 2024
18:11
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Struggling to find commitment? Discover why we often chase after those who give us minimal attention. The podcast highlights the dangers of settling for less and maintaining high standards in dating. It emphasizes the need for clarity in what you want and the discipline to reject incompatible options. Explore how personal integrity can lead to deeper connections, urging listeners to embrace their true selves in relationships while navigating the challenges posed by a scarcity mindset.
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- A scarcity mindset leads individuals to lower their standards and accept superficial relationships, resulting in ongoing dissatisfaction and commitment issues.
- Prioritizing deeper qualities like kindness and emotional intelligence fosters meaningful connections and empowers individuals to pursue lasting, respectful relationships.
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The Trap of Scarcity Mindset
Many individuals struggle to find commitment in relationships due to a scarcity mindset that causes them to lower their standards. When there is a desire for connection coupled with the belief that genuine relationships are hard to find, people tend to cling to any potential attraction, even if it doesn't meet their needs. This often leads them to accept partial relationships where partners provide minimal investment, creating a cycle of dissatisfaction. Unfortunately, this mindset perpetuates a harmful belief that only those willing to give little are available, resulting in a distorted view of the dating landscape.
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