(Matt Monday): Want More Than A Situationship? DO NOT CHASE; Do THIS Instead
Apr 30, 2024
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Relationship expert Matt Monday discusses the dangers of getting caught in 'friends with benefits' situations, emphasizing the importance of being intentional and avoiding rushing into physical intimacy. He also explores the significance of compatibility, authenticity, and genuine communication in building meaningful connections.
Differentiate between genuine intention in relationships versus superficial displays of affection.
Prioritize compatibility and shared goals over rushing into physical intimacy based on immediate attraction.
Deep dives
The Danger of Love Bombers
Love bombers exhibit behaviors of showering someone with grand gestures and affection without genuine intentions or substance behind their actions. These individuals may make intense declarations of love and commitment but fail to follow through, disregarding the impact on the other person. It is essential to differentiate between genuine intentionality in building a relationship versus superficial displays of affection that lack long-term investment.
Importance of Intentionality in Dating
In dating, prioritizing intentionality involves assessing compatibility and shared goals rather than solely acting on immediate feelings of attraction. Rushing into physical intimacy without considering long-term compatibility can complicate relationships and distract from genuine connection. Building a lasting relationship requires honesty, pacing, and a focus on shared intentions over impulsive actions driven solely by emotions.
When we like someone, it’s tempting to move fast, let our emotions take over and simply do what feels good. But in this frenzy of excitement we can inadvertently end up on a path we don’t want to be on… In this clip I answer a question from someone who didn’t want to repeat the last 2 years of her life, which she spent in a ‘friends with benefits’ situation. ►► Get Your FREE Ticket to Find Your Person LIVE on May 4 PLUS a Chance to Win a 1:1 with Matthew & SO Much More! Order Your Copy of Love Life to Enter the Love Life Giveaway at. . . → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
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