

(Matt Monday): Want More Than A Situationship? DO NOT CHASE; Do THIS Instead
15 snips Apr 30, 2024
Relationship expert Matt Monday discusses the dangers of getting caught in 'friends with benefits' situations, emphasizing the importance of being intentional and avoiding rushing into physical intimacy. He also explores the significance of compatibility, authenticity, and genuine communication in building meaningful connections.
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Match Behavior To Your Relationship Goal
- Ask whether your behavior matches the relationship you want and act accordingly.
- Communicate intentionality to increase the chance you get taken seriously.
The Coffee Shop Example Of Pacing
- Matthew Hussey describes a young man who felt intense early feelings but held back.
- He paced the relationship organically to protect its long-term potential.
Love Bombing Masks Low Intentionality
- Love bombing appears like maximum intention but often lacks substance and follow-through.
- It indulges feelings without regard for consequences or mutual intentions.