Maintaining backburner relationships can undermine trust in a partnership.
Fully committing and being present in a relationship is crucial for its growth.
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Impact of Backburner Relationships
Maintaining backburner relationships or contacts outside of a committed relationship can potentially undermine the commitment and trust within the partnership. Keeping in touch with past romantic interests or creating a backup option may lead to emotional conflicts and prevent the current relationship from thriving. This behavior, characterized by not fully investing in the present relationship and leaving other options open, can hinder personal growth and the development of a deep, meaningful connection.
Embracing Commitment and Presentness
Choosing to fully commit and be present in a relationship is crucial for its growth and success. The speaker emphasizes the importance of actively engaging in the relationship, rather than keeping backup options or remaining emotionally distant. By embracing the uncertainty and fully investing in the current relationship, individuals can explore its potential and evolve from a place of security and authenticity. Making a conscious decision to commit and immerse oneself in the relationship fosters personal growth, deeper connections, and a genuine exploration of what the partnership can become.
Back in ye olden times, the fear that a partner might be cheating was enough to keep someone up at night. But in recent years, we’ve added a new layer of anxiety to the mix: “micro-cheating,” a.k.a. “back burner relationships.” In fact, when Psychology Today recently polled people who are in a relationship, 56% revealed they had a back burner person: someone they’re in contact with who could be an option if their current relationship doesn’t go the distance. That’s not to say that everyone realizes what they’re doing. Many feel it’s harmless—that they’re just being friendly and keeping in touch with a friend. Today’s episode will give you a simple test to figure out if you’re in a back burner relationship, and provide you with the mindset you need to give your current one its best shot. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ►► Stop Waiting and Start Creating the Happiness You Deserve NOW - Claim your spot on my Virtual Retreat, June 2 - 4, 2023 → MHVirtualRetreat.com
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