ManTalks Podcast

Adam Lane Smith - What Every Man Should Know About Attachment—And What Redpill Gets Wrong

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Dec 11, 2023
Adam Lane Smith, an expert in attachment theory, discusses the importance of attachment in relationships. He explores secure attachment signs, the impact of anxious and avoidant attachment styles, and how 'nice guys' can move towards secure attachment. The podcast also delves into modern dating, MGTOW and avoidant attachment, and the loss of mature masculinity throughout history.
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ANECDOTE

Defining Moment in Prison

  • Adam Lane Smith recounts a pivotal moment working with a gang member in prison.
  • This experience solidified his understanding of how childhood experiences shape one's beliefs about love and safety.
INSIGHT

The Draw of Attachment Theory

  • Adam Lane Smith was drawn to attachment theory because it addressed the root causes of psychological issues.
  • He found it explained anxieties and depressions where traditional psychology couldn't.
INSIGHT

Defining Attachment

  • Attachment is how we learn to connect, give/receive love, and feel safe, shaped by childhood caregiver interactions.
  • Secure attachment stems from cooperative caregivers, while insecure attachment arises from feelings of burden or neglect.
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