LATE BLOOMERS ONE IN SIX: Rich’s story of childhood sexual abuse
Mar 19, 2025
Rich shares his harrowing story of childhood sexual abuse by his grandfather, exposing the painful realities of grooming and betrayal. He discusses the lingering effects on his mental health, relationships, and struggles with addiction. Through therapy and sobriety, he found a path to healing, even writing a letter to his younger self. The conversation emphasizes the importance of believing survivors and provides hope for those affected by similar trauma, reminding listeners that recovery is possible.
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Grooming And The Night Of The Abuse
- Rich recounts being groomed by his grandfather and sexually abused at age eight during a stay on the Isle of Wight.
- He froze during the assault and was later manipulated with guilt to keep the secret.
Why Grooming Creates Conflicted Memories
- Grooming often uses attention and secrecy, which can make the abuse feel enjoyable to a child and create survivor self-blame.
- Rich notes that the abusive attention initially felt like validation, complicating later processing.
Silence And A Secret Carried For Years
- The morning after the abuse Rich wanted to hide and felt guilty from his grandfather's manipulation.
- He did not tell anyone and carried the secret until age 18.