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Raising Good Humans

Is Your Kid Running the Show? How to Put an End to Power Struggles

Sep 27, 2024
Claire Lerner, director of parenting resources at Zero to Three, delves into effective strategies for overcoming family power struggles. She discusses common conflicts around routines, like screen time and bedtime, emphasizing empathy and clear boundaries. Lerner shares how to recognize and manage manipulative behaviors in children, advocating for a mindset shift that fosters cooperation. She highlights the need for loving limits and emotional scaffolding, ensuring parents can navigate their child's emotions while maintaining strong connections.
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  • Understanding that children's challenging behaviors stem from emotions and development can help parents respond with empathy rather than punishment.
  • Recognizing that setting appropriate limits coexists with love promotes a nurturing environment where children can feel secure and thrive.

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Navigating Power Struggles

The transition into a new school year can often lead to power struggles between parents and their children. Parents frequently resort to ineffective tactics such as yelling or bribing when faced with difficult behaviors like tantrums or refusal to comply with routines. These reactions are often automatic responses that hinder calm, loving interactions and escalate conflicts instead. Recognizing the patterns of these power struggles and understanding the underlying mindsets can help parents shift their approach, fostering a more positive and cooperative atmosphere at home.

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