Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

Our Fears as Parents - Real and Imagined (with Dr. Tina Payne Bryson)

Jun 13, 2023

Parenting fears and fostering independence are explored in this insightful discussion with Dr. Tina Payne Bryson. The podcast delves into navigating children's autonomy, balancing safety with risk-taking, and the importance of supporting their development. Tips on understanding and managing parental fears while fostering a secure base for kids are shared, emphasizing the need for flexibility and reflection in parenting.

44:47

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Tina Payne Bryson

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Quick takeaways

Parents must balance caution with supporting children's autonomy to navigate risks effectively.

Encouraging kids to confront challenges fosters resilience and nurtures problem-solving skills for adulthood.

Deep dives

Navigating Parental Fears

Fears often influence parents' decisions, reflecting our heightened alertness to danger post-parenthood. These fears are crucial signals but shouldn't solely dictate actions. While concerns evolve with children's stages, balancing caution with supporting their autonomy is key. Embracing discomfort, understanding the role of fears in decision-making, and trusting in children's development are vital for effective parental navigation of risks.

Introduction

3min

Navigating Parental Fears and Children's Independence

7min

Supporting Children's Readiness for Challenges

18min

Fostering Independence and Security in Children

4min

Navigating Parental Fears and Trusting Child Development

15min

Embracing Flexibility and Reflection in Parenting

3min

Becoming a parent changes us. The intense love we feel for our children makes us vulnerable to elements of their lives we don't control. Protective instincts are activated in us that we might never have known we had. From the time our babies are born, we're faced with a multitude of decisions about what we allow them to experience. Naturally, we want to empower our kids to feel capable and resilient, self-confident rather than doubtful, not anxious or fearful. But how do we know when we should let go and trust vs. say no and shield them? Are we saying no because it's too risky for our child, or because it makes us anxious? How can we manage and understand our fears? Janet's guest Dr. Tina Payne Bryson (co-author of “The Whole-Brain Child”) speaks to all of these questions with her usual brilliance and eloquence.

Learn more about the resources Dr. Tina Payne Bryson offers at TinaPayneBryson.com and on her Instagram page: TinaPayneBryson

Janet's "No Bad Kids Master Course" is available at NoBadKidsCourse.com.

Her best-selling books “No Bad Kids: Toddler Discipline without Shame” and "Elevating Child Care: A Guide to Respectful Parenting" are available in all formats at Amazon, Apple, Barnes & Noble, Google Play, and free at Audible (https://adbl.co/2OBVztZ) with a trial subscription.

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