Unashamed Unafraid Ep 33: Chris and Autumn's Story
May 31, 2020
Chris shares his transformative journey from multiple affairs to over twelve years of sobriety from sexual addiction, emphasizing the power of honesty and vulnerability. Autumn recounts her struggle with trusting Chris again after a suicide attempt triggered by infidelity, highlighting the deep emotional scars and their commitment to each other's healing. Together, they discuss the importance of communication, setting boundaries, and the role of community support in their recovery. Their candid stories offer a message of hope for those facing similar struggles.
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Early Exposure and Hidden Struggles
- Chris's addiction began with pornography exposure at age nine or ten, alongside masturbation.
- He hid his struggles from Autumn before and after marriage, eventually leading to an affair after starting his own business.
Autumn's Growing Suspicions and Denial
- Autumn noticed disconnection and behavioral changes in Chris, suspecting infidelity despite his gaslighting and denial.
- Arguments, a failed pregnancy attempt, and Chris's continued deception intensified the strain on their marriage.
Discovery, Despair, and a Pact with God
- Chris was caught for one affair and disfellowshipped but continued another, leading to Autumn's suicide attempt.
- He made a pact with God to stop everything if she lived, slowly confessing affairs during her hospitalization.