

Unashamed Unafraid
Unashamed Unafraid
Unashamed Unafraid is a show dedicated to being unashamed about sexual addiction recovery and unafraid of coming unto Christ for healing. Pornography and sexual addiction are not something you are stuck with to manage your whole life. We share real stories of recovery, the best resources, information from experts, and answer anonymous questions with those who know. All to help you on the path of being 100% healed from pornography and sexual addiction.
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Oct 7, 2025 • 16min
EP 181: Live Unashamed- What I'm Most Proud of in Recovery
Join us for another Live Unashamed episode, as we talk about the importance of self-compassion and taking pride in your recovery journey. James shares his experience about being unashamed of his story and how self-compassion has played a pivotal role in his recovery. The team also discusses key moments from their own journeys, including revelations about emotional transparency, honesty, and the significance of changing one's identity as a part of recovery. Dive into this heartfelt conversation that underscores the power of vulnerability and self-acceptance in overcoming addiction.Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH! For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com00:00 Introduction00:59 Recovery Journey01:34 Anchor Points in Recovery02:46 Proud Moments in Recovery05:07 Identity Change and Recovery08:42 Emotional Vulnerability and Warrior Heart Bootcamp13:02 Honesty and Transparency in Relationships14:51 Conclusion and Encouragement

Sep 30, 2025 • 45min
EP 180: Unashamed Guidebook
In this episode of Unashamed Unafraid, Sam, James, Steve and Ian discuss the imminent release of the new Unashamed Guidebook, a comprehensive recovery tool that integrates principles from therapy, church support, and peer-facilitated groups. They share personal anecdotes and insights into recovery, highlighting the importance of safety, community, and individualized approaches to healing. The episode emphasizes the guidebook's collaborative creation, featuring contributions from various recovery experts and emphasizes its unique, self-guided process. Listeners are invited to pilot the guidebook and share their experiences to enhance its effectiveness.*If you want to pilot test the guidebook, send an email to Steven@unashamedunafraid.com and/or James@unashamedunafraid.comMake a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH! For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com00:00 Introduction01:01 Shoe Story and Hacks02:24 Returning to the Podcast03:18 Marriage and Personal Updates03:51 The Unashamed Guidebook05:09 Therapy and Recovery Insights07:11 Guidebook Development and Collaboration16:08 Experiences and Personal Growth22:54 Learning from Josh: Transformative Experiences23:52 The Importance of Safety in Recovery24:51 Personalizing the Recovery Journey27:27 Challenges and Criticisms in Recovery Approaches30:21 The Role of Community and Shared Stories33:55 Unifying Different Recovery Camps37:36 Invitation to Pilot the Guidebook43:06 Closing Remarks and Call to Action

Sep 23, 2025 • 22min
EP 179: Live Unashamed- Navigating Family Dysfunction
In this episode of Live Unashamed, the hosts discuss personal experiences and strategies for navigating family dysfunction and setting healthy boundaries. They explore the challenges of breaking away from codependency, making requests for change, and the critical difference between a request and a boundary. Through heartfelt anecdotes and candid conversations, they offer insights into maintaining self-respect and fostering healthier relationships without cutting off family ties entirely. The episode emphasizes the importance of teaching others how to treat you and the empowerment that comes from having hard conversations within familial dynamics.Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH! For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com00:00 Welcome to Unashamed Unafraid01:12 Navigating Family Dysfunction03:41 Setting Boundaries vs. Making Requests06:03 Balancing Relationships and Boundaries12:54 Grieving and Creating Healthy Relationships20:38 Final Thoughts and Listener Engagement

Sep 16, 2025 • 48min
EP 178: Bryce's Story
In this powerful episode of Unashamed Unafraid, Bryce shares his heart-wrenching yet hopeful story of battling addiction and his journey toward recovery. Bryce discusses the early signs of his addiction, the discomfort and shame that accompanied it, and how it escalated during his adulthood. After facing legal consequences and deep personal relationships struggles, Bryce experienced a profound awakening that sparked significant changes in his life. From adopting a committed daily routine to finding solace in honesty and community, Bryce's journey underscores the importance of persistence, spirituality, and support in the path to recovery. Join us for an inspiring discussion on overcoming shame, embracing vulnerability, and the commitment to lifelong recovery.Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH! For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com00:00 Introduction and Welcome01:11 Early Life and Onset of Addiction02:13 Struggles with Lust and Secrecy03:06 Marriage and Escalation of Addiction07:26 Arrests and Consequences11:38 Attempts at Recovery and Relapse17:54 Rebuilding Relationships and Moving Forward21:21 A Story of Recovery and Repair22:37 Personal Transformation and Self-Acceptance24:15 Making Amends and Building Community27:41 Daily Practices for Sustained Recovery31:25 The Role of Honesty and Trust in Recovery33:42 Spiritual Growth and Divine Assistance38:18 Final Reflections and Encouragement

Sep 9, 2025 • 22min
EP 177: Live Unashamed- Why Sobriety Is More Than Avoiding Porn
In this episode of 'Unashamed Unafraid,' join hosts Chris, Jason, and Sam as they discuss the challenges and triumphs of sobriety and recovery. Sam shares his personal struggles and breakthroughs in dealing with pain and addiction, while Chris and Jason offer valuable insights on emotional awareness and meeting unmet needs. This intimate and powerful conversation is a must-watch for anyone seeking healing and a deeper connection with themselves and God.Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH! For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com00:00 Welcome and Introductions00:53 Late Night Recording Vibes01:19 YouTube and Social Media Engagement03:04 Struggles with Sobriety04:42 Dealing with Pain and Emotions07:24 Meeting Emotional Needs16:40 Focusing on Connection and Recovery19:47 Closing Thoughts and Call to Action

Sep 2, 2025 • 42min
EP 176: Shirley's Story
In this powerful episode of Unashamed Unafraid, hosts Sam and Chris sit down with Shirley and Mike to explore Shirley's journey through a difficult childhood, marked by addiction and dysfunction. Shirley shares her raw and emotional story of growing up in a challenging family environment, her battles with sexual addiction, and the transformative power of faith in her life. Supported by her husband Mike, Shirley reveals the steps she took to find healing and a renewed relationship with God. This episode touches on themes of resilience, recovery, and the importance of community support. Tune in to hear how Shirley navigated her path from chaos to clarity, offering hope and inspiration to others who might be facing similar struggles.*To connect with Shirley, email her at: reachout4wellness@outlook.comMake a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH! For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction01:03 Shirley's Early Life and Family Background03:03 Struggles with Religion and Family Dynamics06:35 Early Signs of Addiction and Self-Esteem Issues11:15 Marriage, Infidelity, and Realization of Addiction15:32 Seeking Help and Spiritual Experiences22:15 Reflecting on Personal Struggles22:29 Overcoming Masturbation Addiction23:46 Support from a Loving Husband25:19 Healing Through Nature and Adventures26:39 Spiritual Growth and Church Involvement27:47 Breast Cancer as a Turning Point29:18 The Power of Poetry in Recovery37:09 Advice for Those Struggling with Addiction39:51 A Song That Represents Recovery41:11 Closing Remarks and Encouragement

Aug 26, 2025 • 22min
EP 175: Live Unashamed- Things I Wish I Knew About Sex
In this episode, Sam is joined by Chris and Jason to discuss a crucial and often uncomfortable topic: sex education and the impact of childhood experiences on our adult lives. The hosts open up about their personal journeys and how parental approaches shaped their understanding of sex. They emphasize the importance of ongoing, shame-free conversations with children about sex, sexuality, and related topics like pornography and masturbation. Join the conversation and discover how to create a healthier, shame-free environment for discussing sexuality.00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome00:53 Childhood Experiences and Sex Education03:48 Parenting Approaches to Sex Education05:31 Personal Stories and Reflections13:15 Therapeutic Insights and Healing19:59 Final Thoughts and Community EngagementMake a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH! For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome00:53 Childhood Experiences and Sex Education03:48 Parenting Approaches to Sex Education05:31 Personal Stories and Reflections13:15 Therapeutic Insights and Healing19:59 Final Thoughts and Community Engagement

Aug 19, 2025 • 53min
EP 174: Josh & Kaleigh's Story
In this heartfelt episode of Unashamed Unafraid, meet Josh and Kaleigh as they share their powerful journey through addiction, healing, and recovery. Listen to their inspiring stories of battling pornography addiction, contending with shame, and rediscovering hope through faith and community. This episode delves into their initial meeting, struggling with secrets, and ultimately finding a path to recovery and a stronger relationship with God and each other. Join us for an inspiring conversation filled with authenticity, vulnerability, and hope.Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH! For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com00:00 Introduction and Special Guests01:00 Meeting Josh and Kaleigh03:29 Kaleigh's Childhood and Relationship with God05:32 Josh's Struggles with Pornography14:56 Dating and Marriage Challenges20:32 Facing the Truth: The Struggle with Honesty23:03 The Weight of Responsibility: Misguided Advice25:17 Hitting Rock Bottom: A Night of Desperation31:03 The Turning Point: Finding Hope in Recovery34:54 Rebuilding Together: The Journey of Healing37:54 Embracing Faith: A New Path Forward44:26 Final Reflections: Messages of Hope

Aug 12, 2025 • 18min
EP 173: Live Unashamed- Connection & Accountability
Join us in this episode of Live Unashamed as we have an in-depth conversation on accountability and connection. Hosts Sam, Chris and Josh, dive into the importance of being accountable, recognizing triggers, and the balance between shame and pride. They discuss the essential elements of accountability—authenticity, action, and amends. Tune in to learn how vulnerability and proactive reporting can transform the recovery journey. Don't miss their personal commitment to connect with others during his negotiation moments and discover powerful ways to escape shame.Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH! For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com00:00 Welcome and Introductions01:37 Discussing Accountability in Recovery05:07 The Role of Vulnerability05:45 Authenticity, Action, and Amends08:33 Personal Experiences and Insights16:09 Commitments and Closing Remarks

Aug 5, 2025 • 43min
EP 172: Jon's Story
In this episode of the Unashamed Unafraid podcast, hosts engage in a heartfelt conversation with Jon, a brave guest who candidly shares his battle with addiction, the impact on his family, and his journey towards recovery. Jon details how his struggle with pornography and sex addiction began in his youth, how it escalated over time, and the toll it took on his self-worth and relationships. Through his story, he emphasizes the transformative power of connection with God and others, and the importance of shared experiences in finding hope. With raw honesty, Jon recounts his setbacks, the moments of grace from his family, and the vital support he found through various recovery programs. This episode is a powerful testament to the possibility of redemption and the enduring hope that comes from faith and community.Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH! For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com00:00 Introduction01:54 Jon's Journey Begins02:31 Struggles with Addiction03:23 Seeking Help and Support08:57 Mission and Marriage11:56 Relapse and Consequences14:32 Facing the Truth19:40 A Night of Revelation20:15 Seeking Help and Support21:01 Struggles and Relapses22:09 A Glimmer of Hope23:46 Falling Back Again26:17 The Breaking Point31:49 Finding True Recovery35:56 Rebuilding and Moving Forward37:19 Final Thoughts and Reflections