Unashamed Unafraid

In this deeply moving episode of Unashamed Unafraid, Chris and Sam discuss some of their worst moments in recovery, confronting actions driven by addiction and the deep shame associated with them. They share personal stories of betrayal, lying, and the immense pain caused to loved ones. Through these confessions, they aim to provide a voice of compassion, understanding, and hope for those struggling with addiction. Tune in to hear how they have worked through their darkest moments, made amends, and found grace and redemption on their journey to recovery.Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com00:00 Welcome00:36 Ashamed and Afraid01:09 Worst Moments in Recovery02:22 College Confession06:28 Making Amends07:12 Lies and Betrayal09:32 Blaming Others14:55 Compassion and Acceptance18:14 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

In this heartfelt episode of Unashamed Unafraid, join hosts as they sit down with Kyle and Madison, a couple who bravely share their journey through Kyle's pornography addiction and their path to recovery. From childhood struggles to marital challenges, Kyle and Madison discuss the impact of addiction, the importance of honesty, and the role of faith in their healing process. They candidly talk about the hurdles they've faced, the steps they've taken to rebuild trust, and how they found hope. Their story serves as a powerful testament to the power of vulnerability, resilience, and the commitment to walking the path of recovery together. Don't miss this inspiring conversation that sheds light on the realities of addiction and the possibilities for renewal.*To connect with Kyle & Madison, visit their Instagram & TikTokMake a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com00:00 Introduction01:51 Early Childhood and Family Dynamics05:33 First Encounters with Pornography06:28 Struggles and Secrecy in Adolescence08:18 Marriage and Escalation of Addiction09:32 Discovery and Confrontation10:20 Attempts at Recovery and Relapse16:28 Creating a Safe Space for Honesty19:23 Personal Experiences and Empathy20:43 Steps Towards Healing and Faith21:24 The Power of Honesty in Recovery22:17 Struggles and Setbacks in the Journey26:15 Sharing the Journey on Social Media27:59 Viral Moments and Public Reactions35:55 The Role of Faith in Recovery38:27 Ongoing Recovery and Future Goals41:10 Concluding Thoughts and Reflections

In this episode, hosts delve deep into the unique journeys of personal recovery. They discuss the diverse paths different individuals take towards recovery, emphasizing that what works for one person may not necessarily work for another. They explore different camps such as trauma,  therapy, church, and the 12 Steps program, and stress the importance of finding a personal approach to recovery. With heartfelt conversations and personal anecdotes, this episode encourages viewers to identify what truly works for them and persist through the challenging recovery process. Don't miss this inspiring and honest discussion on forging your own path to recovery. Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com00:00 Welcome to Live Unashamed00:37 Introducing the Topic: Finding Your Own Recovery01:08 Different Paths to Recovery03:03 The Importance of Personalizing Recovery04:15 Finding the Right Therapist08:13 Making Hard Choices in Recovery11:51 Implementing Effective Systems12:54 Involving God in Recovery16:13 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

In this episode, hosts Chris and Sam welcome Duncan and Gina, authors of the book 'Lower the Bar.' They share their personal journey through Duncan's struggle with pornography addiction, Gina's involvement in his recovery, and how they co-authored their book. They discuss the importance of openness and transparency in their relationship, the evolution of Duncan's addiction, and the steps they took towards healing. Highlights include Duncan's battle with addiction, the turning points in their journey, emotional challenges, and how they ultimately found strength in each other. Gina emphasizes the significance of messy conversations and mutual support in overcoming obstacles. The episode concludes with a special song, Duncan's original piano composition 'Creation,' which symbolizes their story of resilience and rebirth.To connect with Duncan email: LowerTheBarBook@gmail.com, visit his website: https://lowerthebarbook.com/, buy his book on Amazon: https://amzn.to/4nizAaBMake a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction00:53 Writing 'Lower the Bar'02:39 Duncan's Early Life and First Encounter with Pornography05:14 The Formation of Addiction11:47 Gina's Background and Relationship with God16:19 Dating, Marriage, and Disclosure20:48 Struggles and Confessions21:35 Marriage Challenges and Infidelity23:03 Addiction and Recovery Journey27:16 Emotional Affairs and Business Struggles35:16 Counseling and Healing44:06 Final Reflections and Original Song

In this episode of Live Unashamed, Sam shares his personal struggles with the fear of 'doing the work,' fueled by shame and external pressures to perform. The conversation explores the importance of creating safety, setting personal goals, and building effective systems to maintain sobriety. Chris underscores the significance of consistency and the power of support networks in the journey toward recovery. Whether you're battling addiction or looking for motivation to make positive changes in your life, this episode offers invaluable insights and practical advice.Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com00:00 Introduction00:56 The Struggle with Shame and Recovery02:08 Personal Experiences and Insights06:51 The Importance of Doing the Work09:40 Creating Safety and Support Systems13:43 Conclusion

In this episode of Unashamed Unafraid, we are joined by Jeni Brockbank, Executive Director of H.E.R. Wings Unfold, founder of T.S. 12 Anon and the lead host of Relational Trauma SOS. Jeni shares her journey through relational trauma and recovery, providing insights into the importance of addressing deeper issues such as trauma and abandonment in addiction recovery. Jeni discusses her innovative trauma-sensitive 12-step program designed to meet people where they are in their recovery journey. She emphasizes the necessity of creating safety and stabilization, processing grief and mourning, and integrating and growing from these experiences. Jeni also talks about the unique aspects of her program, the importance of community support, and her personal experiences that led her to this work. This episode offers valuable perspectives for those struggling with addiction, betrayal trauma, or supporting loved ones through recovery.*You can connect with Jeni & her resources here:herwingsunfold.orgts12anon.orgInsta: https://www.instagram.com/herwingsunfold?igsh=MWhnd2xuMjIycHhjeQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qrFB: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61578036710116Relational Trauma SOS Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/21XenP3oY0bvBGayYaOzcx?si=7bdf5991912c44a3Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction00:55 Personal Reflections on Addiction and Recovery02:23 Discussion on Relational Trauma and Broader Audience05:24 Jeni's Background and Journey07:22 Challenges and Insights in Traditional Recovery Programs09:54 Developing a Trauma-Sensitive 12-Step Program18:56 Incorporating Prayer and Silence in Meetings21:21 Adapting Spiritual Language for Inclusivity22:43 Balancing Feedback and Original Intent23:19 The Importance of Safe Spaces in Recovery27:20 Trauma-Informed Language in Recovery Programs29:46 Stages of Trauma Recovery36:02 The Rest Process: An Alternative to Surrender38:18 Personal Reflections and Program Impact39:33 Conclusion and Call to Action

In this episode of Live Unashamed, Sam and James delve into personal battles with shame, insecurities, and addiction. Sam shares his journey of overcoming his fears of inadequacy to take over the podcast, while he discusses his struggles with pornography addiction and how his relationship with God has played a crucial role in his healing process. They emphasize the importance of viewing God as a relational being rather than a transactional one, and explore how faith, reliance on God, and embracing discomfort can lead to personal growth and recovery. Join them in this candid and inspiring conversation and learn how to live unashamed.Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com00:00 Introduction and Greetings00:43 Overcoming Insecurities and Fears02:10 The Power of Prayer and Relationship with God02:24 Struggles with Addiction and Recovery04:34 Understanding God's Role in Our Lives05:41 The Concept of Relying on God07:19 Transactional vs. Relational View of God13:59 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

In this episode of Unashamed Unafraid, join us as we delve into the journey of Jeremy Lipkowitz, an ICF certified coach and meditation teacher, who shares his personal battle with porn addiction. Jeremy explores the root causes of addiction, the impact it had on his life, and how mindfulness and meditation played a vital role in his recovery. Through his story, learn about the power of awareness, the importance of self-compassion, and the concept of equanimity. Whether you are struggling with addiction or simply seeking a more fulfilling life, Jeremy’s insights offer valuable guidance. Tune in to discover how breaking free from addiction is about leading a life of integrity, peace, and gratitude.*Connect with Jeremy here:Website: https://www.jeremylipkowitz.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremylipkowitz/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyLipkowitzPodcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/7rdPRXvg3tY93PVE7tleSA?si=1b4bf713145d48f7Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com00:00 Introduction to Unashamed Unafraid Podcast01:06 Jeremy Lipkowitz's Personal Journey with Porn Addiction03:05 Understanding the Roots of Addiction05:04 The Subtle Harms of Pornography08:00 A Secular Approach to Recovery10:06 Mindfulness and Meditation in Recovery18:51 The Practice of Equanimity20:27 Challenges and Rewards of Mindfulness22:40 Understanding Momentum and Mindfulness25:03 The Realm of the Hungry Ghosts27:25 Mindfulness Training and Practices31:57 The Power of Self-Compassion37:04 Professional Journey and Resources40:26 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

In this episode of Live Unashamed, the hosts dive deep into the complexities of codependency and support in relationships. Josh shares his personal journey of recovery and the challenges he faced in understanding the balance between supporting his wife and being codependent. The conversation shifts to the guests discussing their own experiences and strategies for maintaining honesty and connection while avoiding the pitfalls of self-abandonment and manipulation. Key insights include the importance of self-awareness, honest communication, and understanding one's motivations in acts of support. The episode concludes with a call to viewers to share their thoughts and experiences on the subject.Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com 00:00 Introduction to Unashamed Live01:00 Discussing Codependency in Relationships02:49 Navigating Support and Codependence06:43 Personal Stories and Reflections08:33 Understanding Self-Abandonment16:01 Final Thoughts and Takeaways16:39 Closing Remarks and Contact Information

Join us in this powerful episode of Unashamed Unafraid where we talk with Roxanna Johnson, the author of 'Forgotten in the Battle with Sexual Addiction: The Journey of a Spouse.' Roxy opens up about her personal experiences with her late husband's sexual addiction and the profound impact it had on her life. She shares insights from her book, explaining how she navigated betrayal trauma, found healing, and learned to set boundaries. Roxy also discusses the importance of finding oneself, understanding the influence of trauma, and the pivotal role of community and therapy in recovery. Whether you're a spouse dealing with addiction in your family or someone supporting a loved one, Roxy's story is filled with valuable lessons and hope. Don't miss this heartfelt and inspiring episode.*Check out Roxy's book on Amazon To connect with Roxy, send her an email: roxyj16@gmail.com or visit her Website, Facebook and InstagramMake a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com00:00 Introduction01:27 Meet Roxy01:53 Roxy's Journey: From Loss to Writing04:59 The Bombshell: Discovering the Truth09:02 The Path to Recovery: Challenges and Triumphs10:43 Spirituality and Healing15:08 Addressing Misconceptions and Finding Support19:27 Forgiveness and Moving Forward21:57 Jack's Struggle with Addiction24:04 Rediscovering Myself Through Recovery25:03 Finding Joy and Hobbies27:00 Learning to Surrender28:14 Supporting a Spouse in Addiction30:38 Understanding Betrayal Trauma33:14 Healing and Human Connection39:27 The Role of Agency in Marriage43:56 Final Thoughts and Contact Information