Unashamed Unafraid

In this episode, we introduce Rick and Christine Dixon, owners of Renaissance Ranch, a mental health and substance addiction treatment center. The Dixons share their powerful story of overcoming addiction within their family, discussing their personal journeys, professional insights, and the critical role of family in the recovery process. They emphasize the importance of addressing shame, working the 12 steps, and fostering a supportive family environment. This episode offers hope, practical advice, and a testament to the miraculous transformations that can occur through recovery and faith.To contact Christine, send her an email Cdixon@theeftclinic.com, Christine@renaissanceranch.comWebsite: renaissanceranch.comApp with free classes and resources for individuals and families impacted by addiction: RR Family ProgramInstagram and Facebook:@renaissance_ranch (Men's Centers)@renaissancerefuge (Women's Centers)@renaissancefamilysupport (Family Program) Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com00:00 Introduction to Unashamed Unafraid01:57 Meet Rick and Christine Dixon02:56 The Dixon Family's Journey Through Addiction10:59 The Role of Shame in Addiction13:41 The Importance of Family Recovery17:54 Discovering the 12-Step Program22:39 The Impact of Addiction on Family22:52 The Journey to Recovery Begins23:10 The Miracle of Change25:44 Understanding Addiction as a Brain Disease26:46 The Role of Family in Recovery33:08 The Importance of Trust and Communication36:11 Resources and Support for Families44:32 The Power of Prayer and Hope45:01 Conclusion and Call to Action

In this episode of 'Live Unashamed,' Sam introduces Mason, a close friend with a similar background, to discuss their shared experiences and the difficulties they've faced in connecting with a loving, non-transactional God. The conversation explores the challenge of reconciling a shame-based relationship with God, integrating genuine prayer, and finding peace in the midst of spiritual turmoil. Throughout the discussion, they emphasize the importance of understanding the true character of God and share personal experiences and strategies for deepening one's faith. The episode concludes with an invitation for listeners to contribute scriptures that reflect God's love and a special sermon by Graham Cook.Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com00:00 Introduction and Welcome01:28 Meet Mason: A Journey of Friendship and Similar Experiences02:45 Struggles in Recovery and Faith04:31 Deconstructing and Reconstructing Faith05:58 Practical Steps to Reconnect with God11:01 Overcoming the Try Harder Gospel12:55 Connecting Through Scriptures13:21 Rewiring Beliefs About God14:20 Transformational Experiences18:13 Rediscovering Prayer20:22 Understanding God's True Character25:07 Invitation to Share Scriptures26:11 Final Thoughts and Community Engagement

In this engaging Q&A episode of Unashamed Unafraid, the hosts dive deep into various questions sent by listeners surrounding addiction, recovery, and spirituality. The discussion ranges from whether God withholds recovery to teach lessons, to healthy masturbation, and coping mechanisms. They also address difficult topics like coping with pornography addiction while having autism, and the realistic timelines for a successful recovery journey. Tune in for an insightful and honest conversation aimed at tackling tough questions and fostering deeper understanding.Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com00:00 Introduction and Q&A Revival01:57 Deep Dive: God's Role in Addiction Recovery04:36 Exploring the Nature of God07:38 Philosophical Reflections on Suffering and Faith10:18 Next Question: Masturbation Discussion10:53 Healthy Masturbation: Perspectives and Debates15:38 Personal Experiences and Recovery Insights22:09 Exploring Underlying Emotions and Sexual Shame23:07 Healthy Masturbation: Individualized Perspectives23:18 Listener Engagement and Questions24:12 Navigating Sexuality and Church Teachings30:16 Understanding Autism and Addiction34:47 Balancing Relationships and Recovery39:12 Realistic Timelines for Recovery45:20 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

In this deeply moving episode of Unashamed Unafraid, Chris and Sam discuss some of their worst moments in recovery, confronting actions driven by addiction and the deep shame associated with them. They share personal stories of betrayal, lying, and the immense pain caused to loved ones. Through these confessions, they aim to provide a voice of compassion, understanding, and hope for those struggling with addiction. Tune in to hear how they have worked through their darkest moments, made amends, and found grace and redemption on their journey to recovery.Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com00:00 Welcome00:36 Ashamed and Afraid01:09 Worst Moments in Recovery02:22 College Confession06:28 Making Amends07:12 Lies and Betrayal09:32 Blaming Others14:55 Compassion and Acceptance18:14 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

In this heartfelt episode of Unashamed Unafraid, join hosts as they sit down with Kyle and Madison, a couple who bravely share their journey through Kyle's pornography addiction and their path to recovery. From childhood struggles to marital challenges, Kyle and Madison discuss the impact of addiction, the importance of honesty, and the role of faith in their healing process. They candidly talk about the hurdles they've faced, the steps they've taken to rebuild trust, and how they found hope. Their story serves as a powerful testament to the power of vulnerability, resilience, and the commitment to walking the path of recovery together. Don't miss this inspiring conversation that sheds light on the realities of addiction and the possibilities for renewal.*To connect with Kyle & Madison, visit their Instagram & TikTokMake a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com00:00 Introduction01:51 Early Childhood and Family Dynamics05:33 First Encounters with Pornography06:28 Struggles and Secrecy in Adolescence08:18 Marriage and Escalation of Addiction09:32 Discovery and Confrontation10:20 Attempts at Recovery and Relapse16:28 Creating a Safe Space for Honesty19:23 Personal Experiences and Empathy20:43 Steps Towards Healing and Faith21:24 The Power of Honesty in Recovery22:17 Struggles and Setbacks in the Journey26:15 Sharing the Journey on Social Media27:59 Viral Moments and Public Reactions35:55 The Role of Faith in Recovery38:27 Ongoing Recovery and Future Goals41:10 Concluding Thoughts and Reflections

In this episode, hosts delve deep into the unique journeys of personal recovery. They discuss the diverse paths different individuals take towards recovery, emphasizing that what works for one person may not necessarily work for another. They explore different camps such as trauma,  therapy, church, and the 12 Steps program, and stress the importance of finding a personal approach to recovery. With heartfelt conversations and personal anecdotes, this episode encourages viewers to identify what truly works for them and persist through the challenging recovery process. Don't miss this inspiring and honest discussion on forging your own path to recovery. Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com00:00 Welcome to Live Unashamed00:37 Introducing the Topic: Finding Your Own Recovery01:08 Different Paths to Recovery03:03 The Importance of Personalizing Recovery04:15 Finding the Right Therapist08:13 Making Hard Choices in Recovery11:51 Implementing Effective Systems12:54 Involving God in Recovery16:13 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

In this episode, hosts Chris and Sam welcome Duncan and Gina, authors of the book 'Lower the Bar.' They share their personal journey through Duncan's struggle with pornography addiction, Gina's involvement in his recovery, and how they co-authored their book. They discuss the importance of openness and transparency in their relationship, the evolution of Duncan's addiction, and the steps they took towards healing. Highlights include Duncan's battle with addiction, the turning points in their journey, emotional challenges, and how they ultimately found strength in each other. Gina emphasizes the significance of messy conversations and mutual support in overcoming obstacles. The episode concludes with a special song, Duncan's original piano composition 'Creation,' which symbolizes their story of resilience and rebirth.To connect with Duncan email: LowerTheBarBook@gmail.com, visit his website: https://lowerthebarbook.com/, buy his book on Amazon: https://amzn.to/4nizAaBMake a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction00:53 Writing 'Lower the Bar'02:39 Duncan's Early Life and First Encounter with Pornography05:14 The Formation of Addiction11:47 Gina's Background and Relationship with God16:19 Dating, Marriage, and Disclosure20:48 Struggles and Confessions21:35 Marriage Challenges and Infidelity23:03 Addiction and Recovery Journey27:16 Emotional Affairs and Business Struggles35:16 Counseling and Healing44:06 Final Reflections and Original Song

In this episode of Live Unashamed, Sam shares his personal struggles with the fear of 'doing the work,' fueled by shame and external pressures to perform. The conversation explores the importance of creating safety, setting personal goals, and building effective systems to maintain sobriety. Chris underscores the significance of consistency and the power of support networks in the journey toward recovery. Whether you're battling addiction or looking for motivation to make positive changes in your life, this episode offers invaluable insights and practical advice.Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com00:00 Introduction00:56 The Struggle with Shame and Recovery02:08 Personal Experiences and Insights06:51 The Importance of Doing the Work09:40 Creating Safety and Support Systems13:43 Conclusion

In this episode of Unashamed Unafraid, we are joined by Jeni Brockbank, Executive Director of H.E.R. Wings Unfold, founder of T.S. 12 Anon and the lead host of Relational Trauma SOS. Jeni shares her journey through relational trauma and recovery, providing insights into the importance of addressing deeper issues such as trauma and abandonment in addiction recovery. Jeni discusses her innovative trauma-sensitive 12-step program designed to meet people where they are in their recovery journey. She emphasizes the necessity of creating safety and stabilization, processing grief and mourning, and integrating and growing from these experiences. Jeni also talks about the unique aspects of her program, the importance of community support, and her personal experiences that led her to this work. This episode offers valuable perspectives for those struggling with addiction, betrayal trauma, or supporting loved ones through recovery.*You can connect with Jeni & her resources here:herwingsunfold.orgts12anon.orgInsta: https://www.instagram.com/herwingsunfold?igsh=MWhnd2xuMjIycHhjeQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qrFB: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61578036710116Relational Trauma SOS Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/21XenP3oY0bvBGayYaOzcx?si=7bdf5991912c44a3Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction00:55 Personal Reflections on Addiction and Recovery02:23 Discussion on Relational Trauma and Broader Audience05:24 Jeni's Background and Journey07:22 Challenges and Insights in Traditional Recovery Programs09:54 Developing a Trauma-Sensitive 12-Step Program18:56 Incorporating Prayer and Silence in Meetings21:21 Adapting Spiritual Language for Inclusivity22:43 Balancing Feedback and Original Intent23:19 The Importance of Safe Spaces in Recovery27:20 Trauma-Informed Language in Recovery Programs29:46 Stages of Trauma Recovery36:02 The Rest Process: An Alternative to Surrender38:18 Personal Reflections and Program Impact39:33 Conclusion and Call to Action

In this episode of Live Unashamed, Sam and James delve into personal battles with shame, insecurities, and addiction. Sam shares his journey of overcoming his fears of inadequacy to take over the podcast, while he discusses his struggles with pornography addiction and how his relationship with God has played a crucial role in his healing process. They emphasize the importance of viewing God as a relational being rather than a transactional one, and explore how faith, reliance on God, and embracing discomfort can lead to personal growth and recovery. Join them in this candid and inspiring conversation and learn how to live unashamed.Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com00:00 Introduction and Greetings00:43 Overcoming Insecurities and Fears02:10 The Power of Prayer and Relationship with God02:24 Struggles with Addiction and Recovery04:34 Understanding God's Role in Our Lives05:41 The Concept of Relying on God07:19 Transactional vs. Relational View of God13:59 Final Thoughts and Encouragement