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Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

He Wants it Everyday, She Wants it Never

Feb 5, 2024
A couple discusses their mismatched sexual desires and the impact on their relationship. They explore their contrasting views on sex, with one seeing it as a chore and the other feeling a strong desire. They reflect on their childhood and desire for emotional closeness. The podcast emphasizes the importance of touch and surrendering as a form of initiating intimacy.
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Quick takeaways

  • Creating sexual invitations rather than nightly demands can help bridge the desire gap in a relationship.
  • Non-sexual touch throughout the day can normalize physical contact and enhance intimacy in a relationship.

Deep dives

Mismatched sexual desire is a common problem in relationships

One of the most common issues that couples bring to sex therapy is the mismatched sexual desire or desire discrepancy. It can be challenging when one partner never seems interested in sex, while the other always wants it.

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