Life Kit Dear LK: My boyfriend is too close with his former coworker
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Nov 17, 2022 A listener grapples with her boyfriend's close friendship with a former coworker, raising alarm about trust and boundaries. A relationship coach delves into the importance of recognizing red flags and effective communication. The discussion highlights the impact of gaslighting and emphasizes the need for clear boundaries to foster respect. Tips for navigating heartbreak and planning for a potential breakup while cohabitating offer valuable insights, reminding listeners to maintain hope and support.
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Heartbroken's Story
- The letter writer's boyfriend lied about going to a concert with a female coworker.
- He dismissed her discomfort and gaslit her for not trusting him.
Red Flags as Opportunities
- Red flags are relationship warnings, not necessarily dealbreakers.
- Use them to deepen understanding and communicate better.
Gaslighting
- The issue isn't about boundaries, but about lying and gaslighting.
- Gaslighting makes someone question their reality.