Delve into the intriguing dynamics of love and relationships. Discover how boosting a man's ego can create an irresistible attraction. Learn the art of staying in control while making him feel like the hero. Explore tips from popular relationship literature that can transform your dating game. Personal anecdotes add humor to the mix, making serious advice feel light-hearted. Uncover how appreciation and communication can deepen connections, keeping both partners engaged and empowered.
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Halloween Party Prep
Violet Benson recounts a humorous story about preparing for a Halloween party.
Her intrusive thoughts led her to shave her entire body, anticipating a potential, yet unlikely, intimate encounter.
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Phone Stolen at Party
At the party, someone stole Violet's phone, causing her significant distress.
After frantically searching, she retrieved it, suspecting a particular girl, and ultimately left the party, disappointed.
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Borrowed Costume
Violet wore her friend Alexa's Halloween costume from the previous year, a Chucky's bride outfit.
She reveals she never washed it and even broke it, creating a humorous dilemma of confessing to her friend.
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From Doormat to Dreamgirl—A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship
Sherry Argov
This book provides a unique perspective on why men are drawn to women who are confident, self-respecting, and independent. Sherry Argov offers advice and real-life scenarios to help women understand why men respect and are attracted to 'bitches'—defined here as women who have their own opinions, goals, and a strong sense of self-worth. The book addresses common questions women have about relationships, such as why men are romantic in the beginning but change later, and why men take nice girls for granted. It emphasizes the importance of self-respect, confidence, and maintaining one's own identity in relationships.
Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
John Gray
This book, written by Dr. John Gray, uses the metaphor of men being from Mars and women from Venus to explain the fundamental psychological differences between the sexes. Based on years of successful counseling, it helps couples transform their relationships by acknowledging and respecting these differences. The book provides insights into how men and women respond to stress, their communication styles, and their emotional needs, offering practical advice on how to communicate without conflicts and foster intimacy.
They say men control the world, but I say that women control the men.
On today's special episode, catch up with Violetta as she spill her latest intrusive thoughts and a halloween party gone sh*t—and then get ready for dating wisdom that flips the script on love and relationships. Get ready for insider secrets to the male's psych to get him obsessed.
We discuss:
The Power of Praise: Why giving a little ego boost makes him crave your attention.
Be His Queen—Silently in Control: How to stay in control of the relationship while letting him feel like he’s "the man."
Secrets from "Why Men Love Bitches" and "Men Are From Mars & Women Are From Venus": Tips that turn any date into the one you want.
Boosting His Self-Esteem: How to be his safe haven and keep him invested.
Mastering His Heart by Stoking His Ego: Make him feel like a hero—The knight-in-shining-armor metaphor and how men are motivated by feeling needed and appreciated.
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Get ready to take notes because these tips aren't just for anyone—they're for those who are ready to take back their power and get the princess treatment they've been longing for.
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