For decades, the phrase “That’s So Gay” has been tossed around carelessly to refer to things that are bad or undesirable. While many consider it a simple playground put down, it is actually a microaggression that perpetuates stereotypes and fosters a culture of exclusion.

In this episode, we’re taking a look at the origins of the phrase “That’s So Gay,” its harmful implications, and how we can encourage others to reflect on their language choices to promote a more inclusive and accepting society.

Additional Resources:

23. Let's Talk About the F Word
The History of the Word "Gay"
That's So Gay (Urban Dictionary)
Think Before You Speak Campaign
Why is it OK to Say "That's So Gay?"
"That's So Gay" is Just So Wrong
The 2021 National School Climate Survey (Executive Summary)
The 2021 National School Climate Survey (Full Report)
HRC Foundation’s Welcoming Schools
What Do You Say to “That’s So Gay” and Other Anti-LGBTQ Comments?
What Do You Say to ‘That’s So Gay’ & Other Anti-LGBTQ+ Comments? (Resources)

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69. That's So Gay (You Really Shouldn't Say That)