On Purpose with Jay Shetty

Jared Freid & Jordana Abraham: Dating App Burnout? Do THIS 30-Day Challenge to Stop Wasting Time and FINALLY Meet the Right Person

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Sep 3, 2025
Join Jared Freid, a stand-up comedian known for his Netflix specials, and Jordana Abraham, co-founder of Betches Media, as they delve into the struggles of modern dating. They explore the concept of dating app burnout and suggest a transformative 30-day challenge to foster real-life connections. With insights on mindset and self-sabotage, they discuss how positivity and confidence make you more attractive. The duo also tackles social media's impact on expectations and the importance of authentic connections in the quest for love.
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INSIGHT

Negativity Makes Dating Worse

  • Negativity about dating validates itself online but actively harms your dating life.
  • Leading with curiosity and positivity is more helpful than complaining, which only attracts cheerleaders for your pessimism.
ADVICE

Lead With A Full Life

  • Build a full life outside dating so you bring a confident, fulfilled self to dates.
  • Treat dating as additive to an already-great life, not as the thing that completes you.
INSIGHT

Confused = Turned Off

  • When you rename 'confused' as 'turned off' you gain clarity and ownership of preferences.
  • Owning taste makes it easier to set boundaries and avoid wasting time with incompatible people.
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