What is a Good Life? What is a Good Life? #51 - Space For The Unknown with Richard Merrick
On the 51st episode of the What is a Good Life? podcast, I am delighted to introduce Richard Merrick as our guest. Richard is a writer, who after decades of working inside the walls of convention, writes about the journey from working for others to finding our own path outside those walls, and supports small groups as they make theirs by walking with them.
In this conversation, we explore the conditions that Richard incorporates into conversation groups to heighten connection, authenticity, an engagement with the unknown, and what is. We delve into the importance of letting go of being right, not having set objectives and agendas, disengaging to reengage, and turning up as who we are.
We discuss the value of engaging with the unknown for building trust, our ability to make discoveries, for making real human connection, and for the melting of the old to form the new. We also explore the role the artisan plays in ushering in the new.
For this project or otherwise, Richard is one of the wisest people I’ve talked to, typified by consistently reading 3 books a week for 50 years and his continued willingness to engage with not knowing in various aspects of life.
There is so much to take from this episode regarding how you engage with other people, yourself, and life itself, and it may considerably alter your perspective on how you approach your various relationships, be it at work or in your personal life.
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Running Order:
02:41 Sacred spaces for us to share our perspective and experiences in groups
10:26 The formation of conversation groups in lockdown
14:31 Being performative creates boundaries between us
18:41 Conversations that leave you energised and play
22:16 Taking time to disengage to reengage
27:31 Fear of the unknown, rigidly following plans
32:58 How did Richard begin to engage with the unknown?
36:28 The freedom of being ourselves
40:46 Empty spaces and the potential of creation and connection
43:16 Not focussing on outcomes
47:42 Artisans at the centre of epochal change and disruption
52:14 The importance of accepting & acknowledging what is
58:26 What is a good life for Richard?
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