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Psychoanalytic psychology emphasizes the importance of recognizing the obscured aspects of our minds to gain clarity. It delves into the reasons behind people believing their suffering makes them more moral than others. The discussion revolves around exploring unconscious mental processes and their impact on behavior.
The concept of a false self originates from early childhood experiences where individuals may adopt identities imposed by external influences instead of discovering their true selves. This false identity is constructed to meet the needs of others rather than nurturing one's authentic expression, creating a lasting impact on personal growth and self-awareness.
Transference, projection, and projective identification influence how individuals perceive and interact with others based on past relational patterns. Transference involves responding to present individuals as if they were linked to past figures, while projection entails attributing one's unacceptable traits onto others. Projective identification takes projection a step further by provoking behaviors in others that validate the initial projected traits, often leading to complex dynamics in relationships and interactions.
People find validation in groups that project goodness or badness onto individuals, leading to diverse experiences of the same person. This projection affects how individuals are perceived within the group dynamics, with some being heroized while others are vilified. The group dynamic reinforces beliefs of moral superiority, perpetuating toxic behaviors.
Psychoanalytic therapy focuses on uncovering unconscious conflicts and repeating patterns in relationships. Therapy aims to bring these hidden aspects to light by examining the therapeutic relationship itself. Patients are encouraged to express grievances or needs within the therapy relationship, mirroring patterns from external relationships. By addressing these dynamics openly, therapy aims to offer insights that can lead to personal growth and improved interpersonal interactions.
Dr Jonathan Shedler is a psychologist, author, master clinician and clinical professor of psychiatry at the University of California.
We do not understand ourselves. Almost all of what is inside of our minds is obscured from us. We don't need to exclusively despair though. With a little work and some good insights from psychoanalysis, the view can be made a little clearer.
Expect to learn why people believe that their suffering makes them more moral than others, how you can create a false identity without realising, the ruthless danger of projective identification, how come it's easier for us to see people as either good or bad, how extreme envy can manifest, the manipulative strategies we all enact without thinking and much more...
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