Seeing Other People Flirting 101: Everything You Need to Know About Making a Move IRL
Apr 29, 2025
Benjamin Camras, a Flirt Coach and host of Flirtations!, dives into the art of flirting with a mix of humor and insight. He shares tips on building chemistry and recognizing romantic interest, particularly tackling the awkwardness of workplace crushes. Benjamin explains why text chemistry can crumble in real life and how to maintain confidence while flirting, even with social anxiety. With practical advice and a focus on connection over outcomes, he encourages listeners to embrace flirting as a playful and enriching experience.
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Flirting Defined by Connection
- Flirting is the authentic expression of interest without expectation, aiming to connect genuinely in the present moment.
- Let go of outcome expectations and focus on connection to experience natural and confident flirting.
Stay Present to Reduce Anxiety
- Use deep breathing and grounding techniques like pressing your feet or touching your ear to reduce nervousness while flirting.
- Bring natural flow from friendly conversations to flirting by focusing on present interaction over anxious thoughts.
How to Flirt at Work
- Flirt at work laterally, with peers at similar positions, avoiding supervisors to keep it professional.
- Use subtle digital chats, inside jokes, and find private moments to build connection without discomfort.