The Next Big Idea Daily Let's Get Touchy-Feely
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Jun 13, 2025 
Carole Robin, a Stanford professor and co-author of Connect, dives into the art of building exceptional relationships. She discusses how self-disclosure and vulnerability can foster trust in both personal and professional realms. Robin introduces the '15% rule' to encourage meaningful connections while respecting individual comfort zones. She emphasizes the power of curiosity and authentic questioning in creating deeper dialogues. Moreover, her insights highlight how emotional awareness and feedback are essential for nurturing strong relationships.
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Relationship Continuum Explained
- Relationships progress along a continuum from superficial to exceptional connection.
- Exceptional connections allow full authenticity, vulnerability, and productive conflict resolution.
Use The 15% Rule For Disclosure
- Use the 15% rule to disclose feelings gradually and safely.
- Step just slightly outside your comfort zone to build trust and expand your comfort gradually.
Ask Open Questions, Not Why
- Practice genuine curiosity by suspending judgment and asking open-ended questions.
- Avoid why-questions as they imply judgment and can hinder disclosure.
