Am I toxic? What If I’m the unhealthy one in the relationship?

Am I toxic? What if I’m the toxic one in the relationship? Because I think the problem is me. That was the unique question that came into the podcast hotline, and I knew I had to answer it right away.

Am I toxic? That’s a question people don’t often ask. It’s not common for someone to identify themselves as the person in need of change in the relationship, and I was so grateful for this man’s insight and willingness to listen to advice and consider next steps for change.

Am I toxic?

As you listen to this insightful conversation, I want you to ask yourself this: Am I toxic in any way, shape, or form? Or what about this: Could you be the one in the relationship in need of change?

It’s so easy to look at what others need to fix and change, without really looking inward at our own problems, past baggage, unhealthy behaviors, and bad habits. 

But I want you to ask yourself: could I be the toxic one? Is there anything I need to change in my life?

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Love + Relationships Podcast Notes:

For other great episodes of the Love + Relationships Podcast check out:

• Spring: Is Your Relationship Growing?
• Summer Is When Things Get Hot: On Intimacy
• Colors of Fall: Questions To Ask Your Partner NOT Assume
• Winter: The frost of Apathy and How To Deal With It

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DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, relationship expert, and author of Choosing Marriage and True Love Dates, and Love In Every Season. She’s also the host of the hotline style Love + Relationships Podcast. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book an online session with her today!

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