Dom Sub Devotion Breaking Through Perfection: Exploring Expression and Healing with Madelyn Moon
This episode is for the woman who’s tired of performing.
Tired of feeling stuck in her head.
Tired of trying to be the right kind of woman—when what she really wants is to be all of herself.
If you’ve ever felt the war inside between being soft and being powerful…
Between being seen and staying safe…
Between following your impulse and following the rules…
This conversation will wake you up.
I sit down with the fiercely embodied Madelyn Moon—author, teacher, and artist of love—for a raw, electrifying, and liberating exploration of what it means to fully express. Not just with your voice, but with your whole body, your shadow, your heart, your pleasure, your rage.
Madelyn shares how she guides women into deep energetic capacity—through sacred theater, shadow work, and radical self-expression. If you’ve ever struggled with perfectionism, people-pleasing, emotional repression, or disconnection from your body, this episode is your medicine.
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🔥 WHAT YOU’LL FEEL IN THIS EPISODE
• Why your impulse is the most trustworthy thing you have
• The difference between performance and embodiment
• How shadow work can set you free instead of shaming you
• What it looks like to reclaim rage, grief, humor, and desire
• Why you don’t need to fix yourself—you need to express yourself
• How grief can soften you open if you let it
• Why being witnessed in your truth changes your whole nervous system
This isn’t surface-level empowerment.
This is the descent into your body, your knowing, your wild, holy truth.
And you’ll walk away feeling more permission than you’ve ever felt… to be all of you.
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🌹 WHO THIS IS FOR
• Women exhausted by trying to do it all right
• Women who want to stop hiding and start feeling
• Women ready to use their voice, their art, their body as an instrument of liberation
• Women curious about sacred rage, erotic power, and reclaiming grief
• Women who feel too much—and are starting to realize that’s their gift
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✨ CONNECT WITH MADELYN MOON
• 📸 Instagram: @madelynmoon
• 🌐 Website: maddymoon.com
• 🎁 Free 3-Part Series: The Unfuckwithable Artist
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Madelyn Moon is a leading voice in the world of feminine-masculine relationships, devoted to serving women in liberating their expressive, artistic hearts with themselves, with partners, and with the world.
Her work and story has been featured in hundreds of podcasts as well as various publications such as BBC, The Huffington Post, Teen Vogue, Thought Catalog, Nylon Magazine, The Daily Mail, Vice, Greatist, Men's Health, PEOPLE and ABC News Nightline.
Madelyn is the host of the top 100 ranked podcast, The Madelyn Moon Show, and the author of the best-selling book on conscious intimacy, Artist of Love. She teaches live programs, workshops and courses year round.
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00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion
00:33 Revisiting the Conversation
01:10 Guest Introduction and Background
01:44 Exploring Women's Energetic Capacity
03:54 The Power of Choices
05:34 Decision Fatigue and True Desire
06:37 The Sacred Art of Instinct and Impulse
08:06 Embracing the Oracle Within
13:24 The Role of Sacred Theater and Improv
20:12 Breaking Through Perfectionism
24:19 Fully Experiencing Emotions
27:08 Understanding the Consequences of Tension
27:45 The Role of Shadow Work
28:02 Exploring the Depths of Shadow
28:49 Client Case Study: Push-Pull Dynamics
31:34 Creating Objective Relationships with Shadows
33:02 The Healing Power of Compassion
39:21 Grief as a Part of the Healing Process
47:12 Madeline's Work and Final Thoughts
49:12 Making Art Out of Pain