Conversations with a Dom E16: Rituals, Fitting D/s into Your Everyday, and Overcoming the Slump
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Jul 9, 2022 Learn how to overcome relationship slumps in a DS dynamic using rituals to keep things fresh. Explore ways to maintain dominance and submission energy, and encourage your partner to embrace their role. Discover the importance of continuous communication and troubleshooting in upholding a strong D/s relationship.
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DS Requires Conscious Effort
- Real-life DS dynamics involve effort and aren't always perfectly spontaneous or stylized.
- Both dominant and submissive need intentionality to maintain dynamic energy and roles authentically.
Rubber Band Analogy for DS
- The DS dynamic is like a rubber band where tension at one end influences the other.
- Small cues from either partner can stretch this tension and put both into their roles.
Schedule DS Time Slots
- Setting agreed time slots helps both partners switch consciously into DS mode.
- Clear scheduling supports consent and eases mental transitions into dominant or submissive states.