Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting 2534: [Part 2] Do This, Not That: 10 Alternatives to Yelling by Jen of This Time of Mine on Parenting Guidance
Mar 28, 2025
Explore effective parenting techniques that prioritize clear communication and accountability without yelling. Discover powerful strategies to enhance dialogue, manage emotions, and choose battles wisely. Learn to recognize triggers and practice composure in challenging situations. The discussion emphasizes the importance of being neutral yet firm, using emotional regulation to strengthen connections with children.
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Neutral Consequences
- Don't threaten consequences in the heat of the moment, especially if you can't follow through.
- Instead, use alternative strategies and only then apply a reasonable consequence neutrally.
Clear Communication
- Be clear and specific with your instructions, avoiding vague phrases like "It's time to go."
- Say exactly what you mean and when you mean it, avoiding multitasking while giving directions.
Stay Firm
- Don't give in if you've asked your child to do something multiple times.
- Follow through to teach them that ignoring you isn't acceptable, and ensure consistency in your approach.