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Encore: Wendy Harmer on overcoming her fractured childhood

Oct 17, 2025
Wendy Harmer, a renowned Australian comedian and broadcaster, shares her compelling journey from a fractured childhood to success. She speaks candidly about overcoming the stigma of a facial disfigurement and facing childhood bullying, discovering her passion for journalism, and ultimately pivoting to comedy. Wendy reflects on the emotional impact of her tumultuous family life, the creative outlets that shaped her, and how she found stability in her marriage. Her story highlights resilience and the transformative power of humor, all detailed in her memoir.
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Early Facial Difference And Family Protection

  • Wendy Harmer was born with a double cleft palate and lip and describes it as a hole in the face about the size of a golf ball.
  • She recounts childhood taunts and explains how family protected her from bullying, shaping her resilience.
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Mirror Lesson From Her Mother

  • At eight, Wendy's mother told her to look in a mirror and report anything to complain about, then told her to 'just get on with it.'
  • Wendy calls that parenting too tough and later says she would give more compassion to her children.
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Mother's Departure And Long Separation

  • Wendy remembers her mother leaving when Wendy was small and not seeing her for six years after she went back to Tasmania.
  • The separation left lasting hardship and shaped family dynamics while later their relationship became friendly.
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