

134: Dating or Delusion? What to Do When It’s Not Moving Forward - In The Trenches With Tech Guy
Apr 15, 2025
Ever felt trapped in a relationship that just isn’t progressing? Discover why you're clinging onto crumbs and how to break free from self-abandonment. The hosts dive into listener stories about long-distance love and two-year entanglements without commitment. Gain insights on navigating emotionally unavailable partners and the importance of clear communication. Plus, learn how to craft an authentic dating profile that reflects your true self and fosters genuine connections. It's a raw and refreshing conversation for anyone feeling stuck in the dating game.
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Sunk Cost Fallacy and Self-Abandonment
- Acknowledge sunk cost fallacy and self-abandonment in relationships.
- Recognize that not all relationships last forever, and that's okay.
Disinterest vs. Discomfort
- Differentiate between disinterest and discomfort in dating by checking in with your nervous system.
- Explore if you're chasing chaos or truly ready for a stable relationship.
Karen's Long-Distance Relationship
- Karen dated a man long-distance for four months, but communication was superficial.
- He avoided emotional intimacy, triggering Karen's past trauma related to silent treatment.