Online Dating Secrets to Optimize Your Profile - with Koen Geron
Nov 6, 2023
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Online dating expert Koen Geron shares tips on optimizing dating profiles and excelling in online dating. Topics include the difficulties of online dating, authenticity vs marketing yourself, profile photo optimization, improving your life before online dating, profile description optimization, clarifying your desires, online dating vs real-life meetings, thoughts on pick-up artistry, and how to start conversations after matching.
Optimizing online dating profiles through high-quality photos and showcasing genuine interests increases chances of standing out in a competitive dating app environment.
Clear communication and mutual understanding of expectations are key in both short-term and long-term relationships formed on dating apps.
Initiating engaging conversations on dating apps requires personalized and intriguing openers based on the match's profile, gradually transitioning from building attraction to establishing a deeper connection.
Deep dives
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Optimizing Online Dating Profiles
The podcast discusses the importance of optimizing online dating profiles by using high-quality photos, showcasing value through lifestyle shots, and dressing well. It also suggests using creative prompts to share interesting stories and engage potential matches.
Navigating Short-Term and Long-Term Relationships
The podcast explores the complexities of short-term and long-term relationships on dating apps. It emphasizes the importance of clear communication and ensuring a mutual understanding of expectations, while acknowledging that genuine connections can also form in unexpected ways.
Optimizing Online Dating Profiles
One of the main focuses of the podcast episode is the importance of optimizing online dating profiles to increase matches and stand out in a competitive dating app environment. The hosts emphasize the significance of having attractive and genuine photos that showcase the person's interests and lifestyle. They discuss how photos of individuals engaging in activities they genuinely enjoy tend to perform better than staged or overly posed pictures. The hosts also mention that what men think women find attractive can differ from what women actually find attractive, providing insights into the types of photos that can be appealing to women. For example, they suggest having tasteful shirtless photos (if one is fit) and photos with friends to showcase social connections. They stress the importance of taking a long-term approach to online dating and continuously improving one's profile over time.
Crafting Engaging Dating App Conversations
In addition to optimizing online dating profiles, the podcast delves into tips for initiating and maintaining engaging conversations on dating apps. The hosts encourage individuals to analyze the match's profile and come up with personalized and intriguing openers based on the person's interests or photos. They advise against generic greetings and emphasize the importance of generating interest right from the start. The hosts discuss the concept of providing value in conversations, such as sharing fun interactions, sending voice messages, and enjoyable photos. They suggest gradually transitioning from building attraction to establishing a deeper connection in conversations, allowing for more in-depth conversations about personal interests and values when a certain level of attraction has been established.
If you're a man who likes women, the online dating world NOT easy. The odds are heavily stacked against you. You have to stand out. You have to market yourself. And this episode will show you how.
⚠️ The GOOD NEWS is that so few men actually put effort into their dating profiles, that IF you do, you will almost certainly stand out. Join Koen Goren and I as we dive into how you can optimize your dating profile, AND how to excel once you've matched with someone.
EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS 00:00 Welcome 03:01 Why Would Someone Hire a Dating Coach 09:57 The Difficulties in Online Dating 12:53 How to Optimize Your Dating Profile 19:32 Authenticity vs Marketing Yourself 24:01 Profile Photo Optimization 29:20 Improve Your Life BEFORE Online Dating 34:29 Profile Description Optimization 43:26 Clarify Your Desires 51:24 Online Dating vs Real Life Meeting People 54:19 Thoughts on Pick-up Artistry 1:02:59 How to Start Conversations After Matching
