

Ep #352: MVP: Shedding Hot Mess Identity
9 snips Sep 10, 2025
Feeling overwhelmed and stuck in chaos? Discover how to shed the 'hot mess' identity! The discussion dives into personal stories, emphasizing the importance of taking responsibility. Learn thirteen transformative strategies that foster organization and self-acceptance. From planning for potential mishaps to mastering time management, these tactics empower life coaches to cultivate calm and reliability. Prioritizing self-care is key to rewriting your narrative and elevating your effectiveness. It's time to own your actions and create a life of purpose!
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Hot Mess Is A Victim Story
- Hot mess identity is rooted in a victim story that blames outside circumstances for personal messiness.
- Stacey Bayman realized she delegated responsibility to external factors and that awareness started change.
Teacher Called Out Her Unreliability
- Stacey missed or showed up unprepared to events like a coach training because she scheduled every minute and didn’t plan for failures.
- A teacher later told her she never knew if Stacey would show up or in what condition, which was a wake-up moment.
Stop Using Outside Excuses
- Do not use outside circumstances as excuses for being late or underperforming.
- Refuse to offer excuses and take responsibility for showing up reliably.