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Robert Greene: How To Seduce Anyone, Build Confidence & Become Powerful

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Mar 23, 2023

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Robert Greene

Robert Greene, a best-selling author known for his insights on power and strategy, shares fascinating truths about seduction and human nature. He discusses the timeless strategies necessary for success and the complexities of identity in social interactions. Greene delves into the dynamics of trust, the importance of self-awareness, and how childhood experiences shape personal and professional growth. He emphasizes mastering body language, the value of deep observation, and the transformative lessons learned from adversity and resilience.

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INSIGHT

Power as Self-Mastery

Power is not about controlling others, but mastering yourself.
It's about controlling your reactions and understanding your own nature.

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ADVICE

Control Your Appearances

Control your appearances and behavior in social settings.
Tailor your actions to avoid offending others and maintain a sense of power.

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Embrace Role-Playing

We are all actors in social situations, playing roles to fit in.
Embrace role-playing but don't confuse it with your true self.

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Navigating Power and Identity

01:30 • 21min

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Navigating Trust and Power

22:18 • 18min

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The Art of Seduction and Vulnerability

39:53 • 23min

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Mastering Body Language and Craft

01:02:50 • 20min

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The Power of Deep Observation and Learning by Doing

01:23:01 • 3min

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Life Lessons from Travel and Adversity

01:26:19 • 4min

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A Life-Altering Incident: The Intersection of Chance and Health

01:30:14 • 3min

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Journey of Healing and Gratitude

01:32:50 • 18min

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Exploring Human Nature and Sponsored Insights

01:51:00 • 3min

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The Five Frames of Mind

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The Fall of Public Man

Richard Sennett

In 'The Fall of Public Man', Richard Sennett explores the historical evolution of public culture and urban society from the 18th century to the present. He argues that the balance between public and private life has been disrupted, leading to a decline in public engagement and the rise of a more narcissistic, intimate society. Sennett analyzes various aspects of public life, including street culture, theater, and politics, to illustrate how the public sphere has been eroded and how this affects individual and societal development. The book also includes a new epilogue that addresses the impact of social media on public culture.

The Art of Seduction

Joost Elffers

Robert Greene

This book by Robert Greene is an indispensable primer of persuasion that reveals seduction as one of history's greatest weapons and the ultimate form of power. It explores the art of seduction through twenty-four maneuvers and strategies, drawing examples from history, literature, and psychology. Greene discusses how seduction can topple empires, win elections, and influence great minds. The book is structured into phases that guide the reader through the process of seduction, from creating temptation and suspense to making bold moves and managing the aftermath. It is a sophisticated guide that treats seduction as a dance or ritual, emphasizing the flow of power and desire between equals.

Mastery

Robert Greene

In 'Mastery', Robert Greene argues that mastery is not an innate talent but a skill that can be developed through a rigorous process. The book outlines several key stages: finding your life's task, undergoing an ideal apprenticeship, finding the right mentor, acquiring social intelligence, and fusing intuitive with rational thinking. Greene draws on the lives of historical and contemporary masters such as Mozart, Einstein, and Temple Grandin to illustrate his points. He emphasizes the importance of deep practice, self-directed learning, and the ability to read and navigate social dynamics. The book challenges the conventional notion of genius as a genetic gift and offers practical steps for anyone to achieve mastery in their chosen field.

The 48 laws of power

Robert Greene

In 'The 48 Laws of Power', Robert Greene and Joost Elffers synthesize three thousand years of the history of power into 48 laws. These laws are derived from the philosophies of Machiavelli, Sun Tzu, and Carl Von Clausewitz, as well as the lives of influential figures such as Henry Kissinger and P.T. Barnum. The book provides tactics, concepts, and lessons on how to achieve and maintain power, emphasizing prudence, confidence, and self-preservation. Each law is illustrated with historical examples and is designed to help readers understand and navigate the dynamics of power in various aspects of life, including work, social hierarchies, and politics.

The Laws of Human Nature

Robert Greene

In 'The Laws of Human Nature,' Robert Greene delves into the complexities of human behavior, identifying 18 laws that govern our actions and motivations. Drawing from historical figures such as Pericles, Queen Elizabeth I, and Martin Luther King Jr., Greene provides insights into how to detach from emotions, master self-control, develop empathy, and see beyond people's masks. The book is designed to help readers become better judges of character, manage their thought patterns, and influence others more effectively. It emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and understanding one's own flaws to make better decisions in personal and professional life.

How do you achieve success in the modern world? This is the billion dollar question. Some people would say that you must gain a whole new variety of skills and knowledge to keep up in our fast moving times. Only a few people would say you should use strategies that haven’t changed in thousands of years, as human nature and the game of power hasn’t changed either.

Best-selling author Robert Greene is one of these few people. Ever since he was a child he has been fascinated with seeing behind the polite masks that humans show to each other in civilised society, whilst underneath these disguises we all share a darker side and cravings for power.

In this enlightening conversation Robert Greene discusses his life’s work, from the rules of power and seduction, to mastery and human nature. Robert explores how we can use the lessons of history to succeed in all areas of life.

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